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Love is Blind And Stupid

Discussion in 'Snippets of Life (Non-Fiction)' started by Kamalji, May 31, 2011.

  1. Kamalji

    Kamalji IL Hall of Fame

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    Love is Blind And Stupid


    Yesterday 31st of May 11, I was not at all surprised to see this as below

    DOWRY CASE – CHIRU’S SON IN LAW DENIED ANTICIPATORY BAIL


    Here is what the paper says

    Estranged younger son in law of Chianjeevi, Girish Bhardwaj suffered a joklt with the Supreme Court’s refusal to allow him to avail the anticipatory bail in the dowry harassment case.

    Rejecting Bharadwaj’s plea for anticipatory bail, on the ground that the two families were now about to arrive at anamicable settlement, the court on Monday directed him to surrender before the copurt concerned in Hyderabad.


    The court was NOT convinced that Shirish was falsely implicated by his estranged wife Srija,chiranjeevi;s daughter.


    Here is the picture from my archives , of 2007

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    Here is the yesterday’s scanned article from DNA.


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    The couple had run away and got married, and they were given protection by the police in Delhi, where the daughter said that her Dad Cheeranjeevi might harm her.


    And when they did land in Hyderabad, Chiranjeevi did not go to the airport to receive the couple, and in fact did not talk to his daughter for some time. Seems they were miffed.

    And what must have Chiranjeevi felt then, when his daughter was accusing him, of trying to harm her, how humiliating it must have been for C, the father, being ridiculed in his circle of friends and relatives, he being such a big star. I am sure he must have had sleepless nights for months on end, the hurt, the anger, the humiliation taking their toll on him and his wife.


    And even today, he must not be too happy to have this case, for again it is not a great publicity for him.


    I don’t know if the daughter Shrija has any pangs of remorse for her act, what must be C’s feelings, god only knows.


    And it was then I had thought, this fellow is after the money of his FIL, otherwise the girl looks ordinary, in fact less than that, if u go by the pics published.


    We see so many such cases , where a rich man;s daughter runs away with the driver or the cook, in this case, for the girl, she thinks it is a case of love, but to me, it is a case of pure physical lust, for what is there otherwise in a driver or a cook for that matter ?


    For the driver, she is a good catch, for now he can blackmail the girls father , for money to keep his daughter in better surroundings, and live well himself too. And it he gets her pregnant , and if he can get to keep the kid, then the kid is entitlied to the inheritance of his grand parents.


    Same with poor girls catching a rich industrialist’s son by the charm of their beauty, which is all they have , for then their life is made, and even if divorced she will get a good alimony to live comfortable for the rest of their lives.


    In arranged marriages , they see to it that both sides are on the same financial levels, the same castes, good upbringing, which I why I am in favour of love marriages, whereas love marriages are just the two looking at each other, not realizing that sooner or later, u have to interact with the members of the other’s family.


    I don’t mean to suggest, that all love marriages don’t work, look at Sunil dutt, and Nargis, which worked, and that all arranged marriages work, in both the cases, the couples have to work hard to adjust to each other’s natures, desires, surely not easy.


    But in these very rich very poor cases, this money problem does come in, where the poor one of the two, will want his or her pound of flesh from the father of the other.


    With mobiles and internet, parents just don’t know with whom their child is in touch with, what is going on, u cant even snoop, for there is no chance, not like the olden days when they could be touch thru the land line, which by mistake could be intercepted, these days, with prepaid SIMS, u just don’t know anything about yr child.


    Recently on TV we saw a rich industralist’s son, so very obese, that no girl in her right mind would even look once towards the fellow, forget twice, but I am sure a lot of girls must be after him, most of them for his father’s wealth, no doubt. These rich kids can never know for sure, if the girl loves him or his father’s money !


    What they call love, most of the times in these cases for the rich person it is lust, for the poorer of the two, it is opportunity to get rich quick.


    I guess these instances will keep coming in front of us, nothing can be done about it, just that we bloggers will continue to write about it.


    Love is surely Blind.


    KAMAL MAHTANI
     
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  2. samraa

    samraa Bronze IL'ite

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    Hello kamalji,

    your lil jokes missing this time.kamalji,chiru's son in law's sirish bharadwaj had a bad repute .srija still fell for the stupid guy only to realise later..............my pity with the girls poor parents and the two lil kids[srija- bharadwaj's kids].
     
  3. ptamil2007

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    quite true Kamalji.

    Love is blind and marriage is an eye opener

    Money in any form brings in more trouble...
    Yes especially if a rich father has a daughter, it is always trouble
     
  4. iyerviji

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    True Kamalji love is blind and today is 31st May isnt it.
     
  5. omsrisai

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    Kamalji...

    True that love is blind and it creates more problem for a girl / boy from a rich family...
     
  6. Kamalji

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    Dear SAmra,

    i wanted to see who misses my jokes, hence i did not psot them this time.and i see u are missing them:biglaughDid Sirish had a bad name before marriage ? i have no idea really, but when they amrried and the drama they created, i felt then that this fellow has married her for her father's money, which is proving right now.

    but who is to explain to these girls , that bcs of a famous and rich father, be careful of the love of the guy, who knows he is lovinmg u for yrself or for yr father's money.

    Regards

    kamal
     
  7. Kamalji

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    Dear PT,

    You said a wonderful thing, that marriage is an eyeopener, and yes,it takes a lot of adjustments from both the partners.

    Regards

    kamal
     
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    Dear Viji,

    Yes so true.

    regards

    kamal
     
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    Dear Uma,

    So true.

    Regards

    kamal
     
  10. kolli143

    kolli143 Senior IL'ite

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    Kamalji, I agree with you. My heart goes out to the parents of the girl.

    Chiru is a successful star, and he has so many followers and have done good deeds. But looks like he failed at home to raise a responsible daughter.

    Hope they get divorce for that girl and put that bad experience behind them soon.

    Cheers!
     

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