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Love at First sight...

Discussion in 'Weekly Quick Polls' started by Laxmi, Apr 13, 2008.

What do you think about "Love at First Sight"

  1. It is real

    10 vote(s)
    17.2%
  2. It is just physical attraction

    43 vote(s)
    74.1%
  3. No comments

    5 vote(s)
    8.6%
  1. Laxmi

    Laxmi Administrator Staff Member Platinum IL'ite

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    Poll for the week - 13th April 2008 to 19th April 2008
    Hello ILites,

    Haven't we all read Mills & Boon novels where Love at first sight is the order of the day.
    What do you think of love at first sight? Is it just physical attraction or it is a real phenomenon happening on certain genuine instances.
    Share your views and yeah you could tell us your love story too.
     
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  2. GPriya

    GPriya Bronze IL'ite

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    Hi Laxmi,

    My vote is that Its just the physical attraction. No one can love with their eyes closed. Well, any long lasting love starts with physical attraction as the guy and the girl see each other first and if they like what they see in each other, then they approach and make friends, and then end up loving each other. In this theory, the love can turn out to be genuine..but the first entrance for such a genuine love path is the physical attraction.

    Regards,
    GPriya
     
  3. sharadha

    sharadha Bronze IL'ite

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    Hi Laxmi,

    Initially it could be Physical Attraction and later turns to be real love. But less importance should be given to physical attraction and more to real love at a latter stage.
     
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  4. latamurali

    latamurali Gold IL'ite

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    Hi

    I second sharadha.........At first sight.we are attracted only physically.......seeing his/her outlook.......so initially it could be mere attraction........may be in future it may turn to real one........

    there are exceptions LORD RAMA AND SITA DEVI.......(as we used to quote them for love at first sight.).......but nobody is rama and sita here.now-a-days......
     
  5. Mindian

    Mindian IL Hall of Fame

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    hi,

    i too agree with others..at first sight it is only physical attraction but enough reason to carry it on further i think and good if it works out all the way..anyway cant quote anything out of my experience as mine was a properly arranged marriage...

    mindi
     
  6. puni88

    puni88 Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    Hi,
    I guess, your instincts would tell you whether its Love @ first sight or not....
    Whether this person is suitable or not....

    Regards.
     
  7. sangeethakripa

    sangeethakripa Gold IL'ite

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    Initially it is just physical attraction.. Mutual understanding is a must for a better relationship.
     
  8. sujatha.sg76

    sujatha.sg76 New IL'ite

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    It is surely physical attraction. May be gents can feel it( I am married for 8 years...Till now my husband says he started loving me at first sight.). But for Ladies will surely take sometime to fall in love. (I took 4 years)
     
  9. sowminivibu

    sowminivibu Silver IL'ite

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    its definitely physical attraction and 99% ends only as a BIG time pass....

    lov
    sowmi
     
  10. malspie

    malspie Platinum IL'ite

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    t can happen but not sure how long it will last.. As most of the love flies out of the window after knowing the person well.. then it is compromise in the name of love in most of the case.
     

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