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Discussion in 'Snippets of Life (Non-Fiction)' started by sharadhakrishna, Mar 17, 2010.

  1. abibaby

    abibaby Silver IL'ite

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    Hello Sharadha,

    Iam really sorry for the loss. I can completely understand your pain. One of my close college friends committed suicide. It was so difficult to see her family grieve because she was their chella daughter. Even I had the same question. Why didn't she tell us or share with us her feelings? what bothered her so much that she took this extreme step? Weren't we emotionally available for her? It is better to share your pain and vent out bottled up emotions to someone dearer than taking this extreme decision.

    Please console yourself, Take care of your parents. I pray God that her soul rest in peace.
     
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  2. leelagk

    leelagk Gold IL'ite

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    hello sharadha
    so sad hearing the news...poor children ..what karma put them into this situation?nd to your parents too..you shud be there to console them being couragious...may her soul rest in eternal peace..
     
  3. Padmasrinivas

    Padmasrinivas Silver IL'ite

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    Dear Sharadha,

    An irreparable loss. I am unable to find the right words to console you.

    May God give you and your family the strength to bear the loss. You have to look after them and the young children too.

    My prayers for her soul to rest in peace.

    Padma
     
  4. smart_soul

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    Dear Sharadha,

    I'm really sorry for your loss.

    I am unable to control my tears reading your snippet. I pray God to give the courage to you and your sister's family to overcome the loss.. (I know overcome is a wrong word here.. This lost can never be overcome).

    Was your sister on menopause? Or some kind of depression associated with that? I'm sorry about these silly questions but offlate I'm reading/coming across a lot of instances like this.

    SS
     
  5. Ooviya

    Ooviya Platinum IL'ite

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    Too sad. Don't worry. be bold...My prayers for her soul to rest in peace.
     
  6. Tubelight

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    Dear Sharadha
    I am extremely sorry to hear about the loss, in such a violent and inexplicable manner, of your dear sister. How I wish she had called you to speak about what was bothering her .

    May her soul rest in peace and may you have the strength to bear the loss .
     
  7. gjaya

    gjaya Silver IL'ite

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    Dear Sharadha,

    I just had tears reading about your sister. It is painful what you are going through. My heart goes out to you. May your sister's soul rest in peace.


    Be brave.


    Jaya
     
  8. Mindian

    Mindian IL Hall of Fame

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    Hi sharadha,

    that is very very sad ..i really wish she had spoken to you about her problems.. isn't it what siblings are for?dear,you must do all you can for your parent and her children.only that may ease your pain a little.
     
  9. Jananikrithsan

    Jananikrithsan Gold IL'ite

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    Hi,
    It's very sad to have lost your sister like that!
    May her soul rest in peace!
    I'm sure she will live on in your heart and thoughts always!
     
  10. Arunarc

    Arunarc Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    Hi Sharadha
    So sorry to here about your loss, I know sisters are very close to each other didn't she tell you anytime that she is in any sorts of problems. How can anyone commit sucide all of a sudden, unless she was not able to bare something horrible going on with her. Do find out the reason from her neighbours and her kids. Get them to your place for sometime. Or to your parents house.
    Be brave and find the reason my dear.
    Let her soul rest in peace.
     

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