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Look for the BEST in each other:Top 3 Qualities you love the most in your partner

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by Induslady, Feb 5, 2015.

  1. heron

    heron Platinum IL'ite

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    With all the husstle created last year, i am one of those 'mostly needed' persons of this thread.

    He is the best father. He goes way beyoned expected.
    He is a caring person as a whole
    The positivity he has is simply amazing!
     
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  2. tarasharma

    tarasharma Gold IL'ite

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    I like the following qualities in my DH

    a) He takes things as they come. He will not worry about "What if" scenarios like me.
    b) He is extremely patient with me. He has still not lost his temper at me :)
    c) He is very organized with regards to his ( and now my) possessions. He can spend the entire weekend organizing stuff.

    :)
     
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    seekingbless Platinum IL'ite

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    3 top good qualities in my DH (BH) that i look forward:

    1. he is very very patient with me and never had raise his voice at me
    2. his love towards me is the same since last 15 years
    3. willing to help me with house work and getting kids ready to school (he didnt help me today though).
     
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  4. cheenu123

    cheenu123 Gold IL'ite

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    NICE THREAD
    1. I am also lucky since he rarely rarely loses patience with me, or for that matter anybody else
    2.He is a very logical man
    3. He is a chilled out man, which has mellowed me as well
     
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  5. IamLucky

    IamLucky Gold IL'ite

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    here is my part..
    1. He will not remember any hurt feelings for more than 3 days max. Forgets and forgives everybody( i will forgive but not forget:hide:.)
    2. He helps me in everything and wants to be with me always more than anyone else.
    3.He will be the first person to break the fight by making me smile by doing somehting funny( he will not ask sorry though:bonk. May be because of his first quality)
     
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  6. sugugiri2010

    sugugiri2010 Gold IL'ite

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    Nice thread!

    1.He console me when am upset
    2.He will handle things very generously
    3.He have never said no,when i ask him something.

    Happy valentines Day
     
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    madhuprabha Gold IL'ite

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    Hello everybody
    The thread should have been more like what are three qualities which the spouses don't share with each other. Becoz, as they say opposites attract so the qualities which I don't have and which my DH has is what attracts me to him.

    (1) my DH is very very very ............ patient. (it irritates me no end)
    (2) his sense of directions (geographical or in life) is neatly laid out and no amount of cajoling/tantrums by me will deviate him from that path
    (3) no anger.

    To sum it up, my DH is very firmly anchored to ground and rock solid.
     
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    meenurani Silver IL'ite

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    1. He is unselfish
    2. He takes care of me like my parents
    3.He gave me all the freedom , My parents were kind of strict.

    I have started enjoying my life afer marriage and i love him alot and I am blessed.
     
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    iyerviji Finest Post Winner

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    By now I think everyone knows about my dh because I have posted in snippets and married life.

    He is very caring and loving from the time we are married and always been by my side whether in the kitchen, during delivery or the time when I was in bed for two months when I had hip bone fracture and could not move and looked after me like a mother

    He is very economic and I spend a lot .Because of his economic nature we are leading a happy and peaceful retired life.

    He leads a simple life, always ready to help anyone, anytime and never expects anything from anyone. After retirement he does lot of social work and everready to go when he gets a call
     
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    Such a nice thread to get you looking at the plusses :) Top 3...so difficult to rank..so am just going to write whatever comes to my mind first

    1) His razor sharp mind. I love that even after a decade of knowing him, he can still blow my mind with his display of intelligence. It's also reassuring to know there's still more to discover :)

    2) No matter how much we fight, he will never hit the bed without saying I love you to me on most nights...no matter who started it...at night at least..he will end it. On the rare occassions when I do end it, he will never ever make me feel like I need to grovel...just acting normally is enough for him to come back to normal too :)

    3) He not just accepts me but loves me with all of my flaws..as I do him :)
     
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