Every woman has high dreams about the man they are going to marry. I also had that my husband should be well settled should be handsome etc etc Though some of my dreams were not fulfilled I got a gem of a person who did lot of punya going for deaths and helping them because of which he had peaceful death When I got married we were living in a chal Where Iived for 5 yrs. My elder daughter a d son were born there. My husband's niece a d sis in law helped during my delivery. My brother in law and nephews also helped In that way I am lucky that I was married to a loving family I used to feel.bad that we are in chal After my son was born we shifted to flat. where we have happy memories Money Is not everything in the world but love and care should be there.