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Discussion in 'Snippets of Life (Non-Fiction)' started by iyerviji, Aug 11, 2021.

  1. iyerviji

    iyerviji IL Hall of Fame

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    In life, things happen around us, things happen to us, but the only thing that truly matters is how you take it and what you learn from it, not only we have to learn but dont make the same mistake again. It depends on how we react to it and what we make out of it. . Life is all about learning, adopting and converting all the struggles that we experience into something positive.

    Happiness is not in leading a luxurious life , in a relation we have to understand each other , find time to keep our spouse happy and do those little things for each other which will build intimacy. Life is full of imperfect things and imperfect people. I’m not the best . But what I’ve learned over the years is that learning to accept each others faults – and choosing to celebrate each others differences – is one of the most important keys to creating a healthy, growing, and lasting relationship.

    Failure is a part of learning. We should never give up the struggle in life. You Fail not because you are destined to fail, but because there are lessons which you need to learn as you move on with your life.

    We have to learn to respect and respect you have to earn, you cannot force it on others to respect you. There is a thin line between Fear and Respect, every one of us should understand it and do necessary corrections in our personalities.

    Life is Short. Spend much time as you can loving and caring people who love you. Enjoy each moment with them before it’s too late. There is nothing important than family. In everone's life there are strange experiences. sometime it shocks you and sometimes it may surprise you. We end up making wrong judgments or mistakes in our anger, desperation and frustration. However, when you get a second chance, correct your mistakes and return the favor. Be Kind and Generous. Learn to Appreciate what you are given.

    We learn everything from experience, thats why elders teach us what they learnt and try to make us a better person but in our young age we dont realise that they are advising us for our better and dont give importance to some advises which we realise later after aging only that why missed learning what we were taught.

    When I look back I remember the good advices my grandmother used to give . Without having much facilities they lived they had to struggle a lot but still they lead a life with peace and happiness. They were satisfied with what they had , thats why they were happy.

    Since last Wednesday mama is not well. Having breathelessness. He was admitted I hospital. By evening he was better. He did not eat anything only evening he had something. On 4th day he was shifted to ward. He was alright for two days .But sin e yesterday he had constipation and not passing urine after removing the urine bag
    Whole night suffered in pain they gave some treatment but still pain
    Now in the morning only he passed stool and now resting.i also got worried

    Sometimes we have to go through tough times . But when problem is solved we get relief.in young age we are able to face but in old age dont have so much strength.
    I also had dry cough for four months and then breathelessness. After taking all the tests I got better and felt happy but mama got breathelessness.

    Hope everything will be ok soon
     
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  2. Hopikrishnan

    Hopikrishnan Platinum IL'ite

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    I was happily reading your post about how to conduct oneself in life... however your post got grim towards the end with personal troubles. That is sad. I hope he will recover soon and you take him back home, so that he could be as ornery as you are used to:
    Best wishes...
     
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    iyerviji IL Hall of Fame

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    Thanks very much for your good wishes. By God's grace he has come home and better now

    Am I bad tempered and difficult to deal
     
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    Am I bad tempered and difficult to deal with
     
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    I see that you have looked up in the dictionary for what "ornery" means. :roflmao:
    I have read your posts about your sweet dear husband in the past, and that is the reason for my wish that "he could be as ornery as you are used to". In tough times, familiar things matter a lot, even if those familiar things used to be annoying when they used to happen.

    We are used to what we are used to.... and tend to miss that when it is absent. This tendency is universal to all cultures.
     
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    Still I did not understand as I am a tubelight
     
  7. Thyagarajan

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    I am glad of reading the nuggets but the central point deviated to something sad. But glad that you had replied to the response that hubby is brought home and your are bit comfortable.
    God Bless.
     
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    Hello Viji Mam
    You are very strong women and strength for every one, reading your post we can learn many things in life.You cover so clearly every aspect of life,which make us learn more.Thank you for sharing your life experience and giving suggestions wherever it is required.
    Every thing will be fine soon,Be Happy and Healthy
    Keep smiling and posting.
    After reading your post I just wrote poetry which I will post in next reply after this.
    Regards
    Ratna
     
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    RatnaMalliswari Gold IL'ite

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    Life has taught me

    Life has taught me nobody is perfect
    embrace and do my best
    to make others happy

    Life has taught me to celebrate
    each other differences and
    earn respect

    Life has taught me spend
    time for loved ones
    and live in each
    other hearts forever

    Life has taught me,its too
    short to live
    don't hold back
    learn to forgive and love

    Life has taught me simple logic
    living happily and
    peacefully is luxury

    Life has taught me failure is
    part of learning and turn
    every struggle in positive way

    Life has taught me
    to survive in hard times
    and made me stronger

    Life has taught me
    at every age every hour
    every minute every second
    there is something to learn.

    Regards
    Ratna










     
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    Both of you take care and have a positive outlook.
    good wishes .SLN
     
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