Hi... i dont know wat i m going to post is related or nt... bt something came to mind and i m posting it here... My DH has some amount of male ego...( till date dont know wat it is?? and if i can have female ego or nt??) but otherwise he is fine... I am working lady and need my DH's help in maintaining home.. He helps me in each and every household activities...if i m late he cooks also...cleans also...whoever reaches early starts the work..he is SW engineer...so his working hours are flexi..my company is strict...so morning when maid comes he takes care of house..and in evening i do... He directly tells IL's who are frm small town..(ever seen any man helping his wife..) She is helping me outside home so i should help her inside the home.. I want to quote one incident...happened around 1.5 months ago..my MIL was here...he was supposed to go to assignment for 1 month...he was leaving the house...we were there saying gudbye...my MIL asked me to touch his feet...( I forgot that though i feel he is my best friend/boy friend...and wanted to give him a hug... for society..he is my husband... he is my god...) i was in complete shock...bt still did it...as i really like my MIL otherwise..and as she has been in culture where husband is god...so she expects the same from me too...and sometimes i dont mind doing things wat my MIL likes.... I am nt saying i dont respect my DH...obviously i do and i take care my family and friends...also respect him the way i do..bt i dont feel comfortable..thinking he is my god... For me he is my best friend and my love..