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  1. roopadadia

    roopadadia Silver IL'ite

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    Dear Meena,

    This is just self analysis....each endividual has a different view to this...so no probs yaar...go ahead and as you mentioned there is no need to take ourselves seriously. And i pray that you never have to take yourself seriously but its always :partytime for you.

    But still here i would like to bring to your notice that many of us have mentioned in weakness...that we ignore our health...this is not good..even though i fall in the same category.

    Dear Shan,

    I am sure Veda will agree to what you have mentioned. And hats off to you dear. But please don't ignore your health..it is too precious to be ignored. You and me want to be there for the family and not vice versa;-)

    Thanks aishu, for peeping in.

    Suji....you can't be a cry baby...then your baby will think s/he has competition;-)


    Thanks folks for peeping in.

    Warm regards
    Roopa.
     
  2. SoaringSpirit

    SoaringSpirit Silver IL'ite

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    Great thread Roopa. Had been meaning to reply to this one for a while.

    Here’s what I have to list for myself –
    Strengths -

    1. Very strong bouncing back ability.
    May feel down at times, but never out.
    2. Dependable.
    Once I commit to something (task, responsibility, help a person), I will not leave it halfway. Like to see things through completion or closure.
    3. Not jealous of people’s success or progress, even if they happen to be people I don’t particularly like.
    If at all, I may get inspired by them - but never insecure or jealous. I firmly believe that God has always given me, and, will continue to give me what I deserve. So no reason to be jealous of someone’s good fortune.

    Weaknesses -

    1. Push myself too hard to be better or do better in most things I take up. Sometimes expect the same from others and cause a lot of unnecessary arguments! J
    2. Very finicky about cleanliness, organization and timeliness.
    I have improved a lot on easing out on the first two, but lack of keeping a time that was committed still gets the worst out of me! L
    3. Over commit myself (too many varied interests). And always restless to do more.
    But this is one evil I cannot live without! Exhaust myself too much in the process.

    SS
     
  3. Meenaneelakantan

    Meenaneelakantan Bronze IL'ite

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    Dear Roopa ma'am

    Thanks a lot for taking my post lightly! Thanks for your prayers too!
    Even i fall under the same category..am a poor eater..Half of my mom's energy is spent in asking me to eat properly..

    Regards
    Meena
     
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    padmavathi m Silver IL'ite

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    dear roopa,

    my strength

    1. very helpful
    2. very optimistic, i feel i am born to win something on earth
    3. good memory

    my weakness

    1. rushing in the 11th hour
    2. believes everyone on earth, so i get cheated very easily. most of the time i go for a long ride
    3. very frank like an open book because i think everyone on earth has similar problems but only the degrees differ from each other, so whats there to hide from near and dear ones. i tried hard to change, but most of the time in vain, i feel i should change

    i had to ponder so much for my weakness

    love and regards
    padma

     
  5. Narik

    Narik New IL'ite

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    Strength:
    Hard working
    Honest
    Protect family and friends ...will do anything for them

    weaknesses:
    Very bad Temper
    emotional
    Having a small ego...is that allowed...suppose no!!!!
     
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    Ria2006 Silver IL'ite

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    Hey Narik,

    Nice to know your strengths..and I disagree that someone who will do anythign to keep her family safe , will have low ego..

    ria
     
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    hydgrr Bronze IL'ite

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    Nice thread.
    Strengths
    Hard working
    intelligent
    helping others

    Weakness
    Very emotional
    short tempered
    lazy at house hold work

    -Priya
     
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    Nivedi New IL'ite

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    This turned to be a good exercise. Being self-critical, it was easier to point out my weakness.

    Strengths:

    Trustworthy and dependable
    Sympathetic
    Adaptive

    Weakness:

    Emotional
    Unable to forget and forgive
    Pessimistic, at times
     
  9. roopadadia

    roopadadia Silver IL'ite

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    Meena, then see to it that your mom has proper food so she has enough energy to run behind you with food.:wink:
     
  10. roopadadia

    roopadadia Silver IL'ite

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    Hi Friends,

    Now the next exercise is to work on our weaknesses.

    How to overcome the weakness in us and turn them into strength.

    All the Best
    Roopa.
     

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