Kannathil Muthamittal

SSC dear welcome to my thread. Glad you enjoyed the movie and to know that your cousin was adopted when she was a kid. Good she took it in a good way when she was told and feels that she is special.

... Now she is 17, and she is still so innocent, and at times tells the relatives - that I'm really special to my parents, because I didnt come from my mummy's tummy, and they got after 2 months of my birth.... The way she narrates it is sooo cute, and all of us admire her for her innocence..

Feel touched to hear this.

I believe the child has the right to know about it from her parents rather than from anyone else at any point of time, that would affect her deeply... Overall, it depends on the equation parents have the kid, and how will they can put it fwd to the kid, my uncle did a great job with it![/QUOTE]

True I agree with you

 

Hridhaya dear I am fine dear. Its ok dear no problems. Why should u besorry. Thanks for your appreciation dear. It was God's will that my daughters had to adopt a child and now they are very happy and the children and the parents both are lucky to have each other and they shower their love

 

Vidya dear glad its your favourite too. Thanks for your appreciation.

 

Kalyani dear I dont know whether the movie has a hindi version. Yathe theme is very touching and I cried most of the time watching the movie thinking of Gopika and Pratima. We have got such lovely children. .

Ma, it is a blessing to be a part of an affectionate family and blood relation does not really matter here. We get to see so many children around being ill-treated by their parents, and on the other hand we have innumerable examples as your daughters cases, ma!

Yes dear I agree with you, we are lucky to have them and they are lucky that they are getting so much love from their parents . Noone will beleive that they are adopted

I feel it is NOT NECESSARY for the adopted children to know who/where their biological parents are. Firstly, because, to me, it DOES NOT matter and is an IRRELEVANT piece of information. Secondly, the reality (either the parents are dead or abandoned the child) is too harsh for the young soul to bear with. The child may be perturbed and may try to look for its biological parents, but that is possibly just as a matter of curiosity. I do not think s/he will start loving his/her parents less just because they have adopted him/her.

Yes dear I also think the same way as you think . Dont know in what way they will take if they are told. But mydaughters feel that they must be told because if they come to know from a third person they will feel bad.

I do not think that all the truths should be revealed, when it is not necessary. But many a times, the society creates trouble. The people around or his or her friends may start poking and bothering him or her revealing the truth. In that case, s/he may be hurt that the parents have hidden some facts from her or him. That is ONLY reason, to me, which may necessitate that the truth be revealed, otherwise not.

Yes dear better the parents tell them instead of hearing from others and they might feel embarassed at that time.

Nice and touching post, Vijima!

Thanks dear

 

Aruna dear ya that girl acted very nice and even Simran and Madhavan have acted well and looked real in the movie.

 

Prana dear glad to know you also liked the movie. Ya I heard about the end, but want to watch one day. Ya I am glad that my daughters could adopt. thanks for your good wishes[

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