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Discussion in 'Regional Poetry' started by ganges, Apr 1, 2010.

  1. ganges

    ganges Gold IL'ite

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    பெண் பார்க்க வரும்போது அவனை முதன் முதலில் பார்த்தாள்
    ஜாதகம் சேர்ந்தது என்றார்கள்
    தூங்கி கொண்டிருக்கும் அவனை இப்போது திரும்பி பார்த்தாள்
    மனது சேரவில்லை என்றாள்!


    ganges
     
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  2. yams

    yams Platinum IL'ite

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    aahaa ippadi love marriage kum arrange marriagekum saeththu revit kuduththa naangalaam ennadhaan pa pandradhu????????????:bowdown
    but sweet one dear!!!! this is the problem in arranged marriage!!!! aana love marriage layum problem ellama ella its tat how they understand eachother if tat suits out well then no problem in both type of marriage!!!!!!!!!!!!
    my vote goes to love cum arranged marriage!!!!!!!!:thumbsup
     
  3. ganges

    ganges Gold IL'ite

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    Dear Yams

    Thank you for the first fb dear. arranged , love or love cum arranged - whatever it is there should be love after the marriage. that is important for a happy married life.

    ganges
     
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    I agree with you ganges, its not how we get married, but its how we live after marriage that matters.....

    I know a couple, who were in deep love, eloped and married.... now they are more worse than cat and dog.... they are just waiting for the daughter's marriage to separate....

    Love is the greatest bonding between relationships.....

    Sandhya
     
  5. ganges

    ganges Gold IL'ite

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    dear sandhya

    yes dear. Only the understanding between the hus and wife is important. age is not a factor in this. Do you know one secret, age aaha aaha thaan kanavan manaivi idayil anbu jaasthiyaagum endru. neengal chonna inda chila perai thavira, athu sari endre thondrugirathu.

    ganges
     
  6. shreyashreyas

    shreyashreyas Gold IL'ite

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    Ganges just to share with you, what i feel is you should love both the positive and negative of a person then only you can share the best relationship....

    if you see only positives and marry (either in love or arranged marriages), when negatives come in front of you, you start to fight, such fights never end.... at last you feel that you were deceived and love disappears.... so

    love, as he/she is, marry, love what he/she is, understand each others needs, understand each other's feelings and oblige - life will be wonderful.....
     
  7. pgraman

    pgraman Gold IL'ite

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    கொடுமையான்a உண்மை கங்கா mam
     
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    natpudan Gold IL'ite

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    Ganga,

    Arranged or Love problems are plenty in life.

    Love beginning or continuing after marriage is the key to success.

    I never believe in Ideal Matches.

    To love some one as is & finding the common rhythm will give the real satisfaction.

    Nice Kavithai Ganga.
     
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    Nice poem Gangey.

    Be it love marriage or arranged marriage, if minds don't bind, problems are sure to be there.
    For binding to happen, the couple has to understand each other well.

    Bi.
     
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    deepa04 Gold IL'ite

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    dear gangai,
    natla, ella edathulaiyum, ithe prechanaithan.
    palagipochu.verene solla?

    enaya ellam,ponuparkave varale!
    peranthathule irunthu parkare pona parka vera varuvangala enne!
    kanavan, maman maganaga irukum pothu.
     

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