@Chocolatey you are welcome. I think it happens with everyone. After marriage we get busy with our family lives subconscious partners and family become our major part of life emotionally and physically( in terms of physical presence)- making them as complete priority. Where are men have lot of distractions if they want. If hubby is caring it’s worth it otherwise it’s better to be ourselves when we were prior marriage indulging with hobbies, more self care. This may sound rude, but I’m just happy with the idea at least for now. Later I may find other ways to deal with it. But yes we have practice sometimes to make ourselves and our needs priority at least when needed. And last but not the least prioritize the things you want to make changes. Take up the things few at a time, so that you will not feel overwhelmed with all the new changes. Gradually make them your part of life.