My husband has inherited all the qualities of in-laws so I have double trouble . He sides with them for everything , want me to do everything for them and when it comes to my side of the family he measures things and gets very jealous even if I make an extra phone call to my parents sister or brother . Basically he wants it all and same goes for I laws what I mean is he wants me to do everything for In-laws who wkkk not even spend a penny on us , who do not respect me at all, wants me to live with them because they are His parents , my parents spends a lot of us , they never take anything from me . But if I call my parents or my sister, my husband gets very jealous and all of a sudden starts calling his family , his sister etc to make up for my etc calls . His sister does not even call Me at all but my husband wants me to talk to her nicely and treats her just like my sister . I should also not bring up the topic of her not calling me at all because that according to him does not matter . I dnt want to do anything for my inalws . I dnt feel obliged at all but my husband forces me to do a lot and also compared my doings for my family to his family . But vice versa does not apply because he is the som and that ******** Indian thing where son does everything and is his reposnsobilty . I have started to simply hate my I always family a lot and I dnt want to go back to even making up with any of them . I dnt want to give any other chance to see if this in-laws relationship can improve . I have wasted 15 years and I’m done .