Iv Conceiving

You are absolutely correct. According to my knowledge, those days , the air was pure. The food was nutritious. No plastic usage. Even u know in restaurants, they give the food in banana leaf(nowadays in plastic sheets), particularly no radiation at all from mobile phones, laptops no usage. I love the ancient life. Nowadays everything turns microwaveable, those days no pollution in air, nowadays pollution is in hyper mode. Full of traffic and petrol emission. Food is adulterated. Pesticide usage in crops. Those days children used to play ancient games lime pallanguzhi , pandi etc..nowadays tablet. Am I correct?

 

Venlax, hope you are doing well !
I have quite the opposite views from yours about fertility centers. It is a commercialized business no doubt , but for couples that cannot conceive naturally it is a boon. The older generation did not put in much thought before having kids but couples now realize that they would rather be settled and be able to provide for their children before they plan them. There is nothing wrong if a woman wants to focus on her career before planning kids. Life is unpredictable and one can never be prepared enough when things go wrong . So it is imperative that women are financially independent . Babies born through IV should not have any more problems than the ones conceived naturally when they are singletons , only the twins and triplets were found to have a small increase in intellectual development .
Take care !

 

Fertility centers are money draining commercial centers. I hate them. They give medicines and spoil health as much as possible and I believe, because of these. the natural fertility in the body stills gets worser.

 

This was all part of scientific innovation and we are using the technology like fridge, washing machine, car etc. We are a part of it. Yes children should try to learn real sports. I am a sports person . I want every children to learn sport activity. We need activities too to feel healthy . you are right. Pollution Has to be controlled . it has to be done with the help of government. We need to find solutions rather cribbing about good olden days.
But we can't say that every fertility centre is WRONG. NEGETIVE THINKING WONT TAKE US ANYWHERE. IT IS A BOON TO MANY PARENTS TO BE. HOPEFULLY IT SHOULD WORK OUT WELL.

 

Yes I accept. It's a boon. But taking this as an advantage, many centers have opened with advertisement banners and using the weakness of every couple they earn. That attitude agitates me a lot. Poor people believe what the doctor says and after effects in health are unimaginable. Some are lucky and some are affected. Iam one of those affected. When I was in one( big and famous) hospital, they said they give the same injection to everyone. Those who are lucky will get it. Those who are not they can't help. Without any analysis they are giving same treatment. It was like a sea of people crowded. Can't imagine.

 

Accepted few hospitals are trying to take advantage, to be apt I would say from small fever to heart problems , from emphysema to fertility treatment they are focused on making money( I have proofs too to say This). But there are good hospitals , doctors too who are really rendering service (this also i can say confidenly). So lets take the positive side. I understand ur pain.My tuition student (a child in teens) was made to be hospitalised for more days than required by a famous hospital in India and the mom faced lots of issues regarding not so good treatment . Yes I know the pain. Lets focus on good hospitals for us . lets search the best .The world does not end with wrong ones.