IUI: Queries & suggestions!

U are in my prayers Bharati. God will be kind to you soon.


Priyu

 

Hi Swati,
Very sorry to hear ur update. I know how it feels to have a failed cycle after all the pain. To me after 3rd failed IUI the doc explained that though i have pco's they r not obstructing the tubes,the hormonal reports r perfect and everytime i produce good ovaries even this cycle(4th) i had 3 ovaries which were 16mm,18mm and 22mm, my iui was performed after 38hrs of trigger. still the cycle failed,the periods delayed by one week.the doc says we need to sit to fix with ivf cycle with a break of 2-3months.He says its unexplainable with all the required reports being positive.
The doc said that clomid's effect stays in a body for more than a month so to observe the ovulation days, maybe things might work out naturally at times. I had heard many cases who conceived naturally immediately after failed iui's and ivf's so don't loose hope.
Wishing u and ur hubby come out of this phase and keep up ur spirits.
bye!
sudha

 

Hi Swati,
Sorry about your results. Sometime we couldn't find answers for the failed cycle. I understand how you feel after having good follicle, and counts. Hope your Dr clears your doubts. Take time and decide your next step.Keep up your positive spirits. All the best to you. Take care.
Bye.

 

Sudha,
Thanks for your soothing words.
I met my doctor yesterday.she was also shocked to know that i got period...she asked me are you sureu got periods??:bowdown...humm i said well its scanty but i know its period..:spin...then she also kept thinking for a while when i asked her reason......then after 5 mins she told it seems Unexplained infertility...:rant......she told to undergo two more iuis one with injection and one normal and then to shift to IVF.......but I told her this month I am not prepared for anything and I need a break.......she agreed and asked to come after 1 month........

Actually one person told me by looking my kundali that i can not conceive brfore december ...and i am seeing its getting ture....as all the good reports but no suceess so even if i think about IVF ...i will do it after dec 2011 .....now a days i think am i really a woman body ...or alien....how other gals on this earth conceive so easily...even if they are fatter and aged than me... then WHy not me:bonk

well Doctor told Dupaston makes period scanty...as it was given as hogh dose for me....but today at day 3 flow got normal.

 

yes Saktips,
I feel like crying and shouting loudly after having failed iui that too after so many good thigs....not able to take my mind off .....lets see what god has planned for me....:bowdown

 

Yes Priyu,I am trying my best to calm myself.....but hummm:bowdown

 

Hi Bharti,

May be you are right....but why all the time we are on unsuccessful side....why not on 30% side .......till today i have not done anything wrong with anybody nor my DH then why this is happening to us ....:spin

 

Hi Swati Dear,

Sorry about your AF. Don't worry. You will conceive soon. Pregnancy is a miracle. We may not know when the surprise will happen. But it will happen. Stay calm. Be positive.

 

Wish i am with u this time dear!! i had tears reading the last sentence. Don't ever think u r on the unsuccessful side.. with caring,understanding husband at ur side u dont have to fear that u couldn't or may not acquire wht u deserve in life.Its just that we r delayed,this period brings u both couple much closer and makes ur bond more strong.
I have realised that i got to go the tough way,so framed my mind never to loose hope and get discouraged.I know that its because of my mind frame that my husband could maintain his cool and stay positive both at work and at social front.

After 8yrs of marriage i had learnt to be happy and thankful to God for some best things around me..and doing my 100% to get the remaining,keep ur prayers strong dont loose hope and trust.
Good Luck,
sudha

 

hi gals

i feel very sad swati...i was rooting for u. and i don't have words for you. u'll have to get over this and think ahead

bharti..a warm hug to u..don't know if u need it but i do

i am confused. i didn't call the doc. have been researching a lot on the internet.. and as priyanka and sudha said.. i have concluded that most probably my health is the culprit. i checked a lot about LPD and found that i have most symptoms. i got to get things in control first. i have found that i pass very thin blood during the periods and there is not much of tissue too. may be i am not able to carry even if fertilization happens.

no iui for me this time. taking a break to improve health. i had stopped iron mid way last cycle as i felt extremely bloated and nauseous in the night during the last cycle. but i have resumed now and take it along with the meal so the effects are not too drastic.

i am keen to try some foot reflexology or some accupuncture.i read a document on chinese medicine and i had most of the symptoms that doc mentioned. wondering where can i get some chinese herbs. i'll share the doc with all of you.

willsoon fix up an appointment with an infertility specialist. but am not able to find any nearby. and it's very tough to manage treatments from a far off place with this full time job. i hope god helps me find a way out

priyanka u're right. my iui was done very late . i used to take triggers in the evening and had my iuis on the 2nd day in the afternoon..more that 45 hrs later sometimes...

bye for now
lots of lock and god bless