I have written this one sometime back, but forgot to post it. Though I am not a conservative, I do not support all modern outlook that is against our culture. It does not mean that I am against divorce. It should have a valid reason. ILites may have different views. Ithu thaan PeNNUrimaiya? Aanaikkoru kaalam vanthaal poonaikkoru kaalam varum AaNukkoru kaalam enRaal PeNNukkoru kaalam varum enRu aaRRaamaiyotu KaaththiruNthom Aanaal iNgu natappathenna peNNUrimai enRa peyaril IyaRkaikku maaRaana Orina seRkkai eNgal piRappurimai enRa vithaNtaa vaathamum Uppu peRaa ULLambala vishayaththai Urambala vishayamaakki porkkodi pitiththu korttu kacheri enRu padi eRi vaathittu vivaakarathu peRRu saathanai Nikazthitum avalam NaaLukku NaaL Perugi varuvathai paarthaal namathu Desam ithil muthanmai Idaththai piDithitumo enRa Achame ezukinRathu Aandavane kaappaRREnRu ARai kuuval ViduKkinRen! Pushpavalli
Hi Pushpa, Pennurimay, munnurimai endru kural koduthukkondu, namakku irukkum mariyadhayayai, thazhthikkondirikkiromo... nangalum kai koopukirome.... Veda & shanthi
hello manathai baaramakkum ezhuthukkal osaipadamal namathu kalachaarathil ooduruvalgal...palavatrai naam etru. santhoshappada sila sinthikka sila perumai pada sila ithu pol vetkapada... there is another thought have you ever met a person having aids living in your apartment or down the road...i havent but i have seen some with cancer, or more cronic disease... but see the ads ...the campaigns that yell theres aids around every nook and corner beware it may be at home too...! what we will not do for money? we get aid money for propagating? against aids...! why do you think we drink water from a bottle...all germs ya they drink bottled aerated drinks instead of water abroad...! and there are no germs that harm we drink water straight from the tap...! this is just a tip of the ice berg... i have more...called culture shock.....! and listing alone cannot change society... awake arise and caaaaallll....! sathya
Dear Pushpavalli Srinivasan, Your anguish and concerns are genuine. But, these values are there only with old timers. Modern people or people who want to pose as modern don't find fault with divorce at the drop of a hat. My aged American colleague while discussing lesbianism, living in culture, gay people and divorce issues told that in U.S these things are not accepted but tolerated. Religious people still regard these things as blasphemy. There is another famous saying that bad things stick very hard and in young people it is even more harder. It seems that in U.S. generations of people have gone through these things, found them not working and now coming back to old systems of happy married life, joint family etc. We in India always tend to ape the western culture and we are behind in times. So, we have to go through these changes and I am sure one day our younger generations will find these as bitter pills not producing the desired results. I am for full and equal rights to women on the lines of Bharathiyar's Pudumai Penn. Regards, TDU
Dear Sathya, kalachara seerazivukku yaar kaaraNam? tholai kaatchi, pathirikaikal, InaiyathaLam enRu ivaRRin mel mattum pazi sumathuvathu eNtha vithathil niyaayam? kuzaNthaikaLai vazarkkum PeRROrukku poRuppu illaiyaa? I have seen one AIDs patient who came to know about his disease only after he got married! He commited suicide within a week! The poor girl had to suffer because of him! In my opinion each and every parent is responsible for their wards conduct. Every one has got the social responsibility towards the society. Love, Pushpavalli