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  1. iyerviji

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    I already found the world’s best husband which I did not realise when I got married. That time I used to think should have a handsome husband having a high post, a big house with all comforts, should lead a hi life etc. etc. But later only understood that money is not everythng in life and simple life isthe best and alsosimple husband which I got in life and thatswhy I am enjoying my retired life.

    Some couples boast about being exactly the same. I am happy that we have differences because these variations make us complete each other perfectly.” Lifestyle of each one of us is different. Happiness does not come from having everything , but making the best out of what we have its all about how we see ourselves. Happiness is nothaving what we like, but liking what we have and being content.

    Despite all of the troubles and problems of day-to-day existence, my life is perfect. existence.”
    Growing old used to scare me. Now, I do not fear old age because I l get to spend it with my husband. There are hard times but sharing with him makes everything easier. The most difficult of burdens are made simple when I am with him. When we grow old then only we understand each other more and when children are married and gone and when only two of us are there then we realise how blessed we are

    “It is good to have a husband who forgives for the past. It is better to have a husband who forgives what you do in the present. Best of all is to have a husband who forgives everything and focuses on
    a future together.”

    When I see and hear about other husbands then only I understand howblessed I am to get a gem of a husband. The other day my another friend and his wife were going out and it was raining heavily. Friend's wife was having leg pain and was finding difficult to walk in the rain and in some places it was flooded also. They are also in the same age like us. I told my friend your wife is finding difficult to walk in the rain hold her and walk for which he said we should be independent and try to manage ourselves. Where as my husband helps me whenever I have to get down from steps and whenever I need him. IN that way my friend is loving type only and he has taken his wife all over the world but in this case he has a different policy. Everyone has some positive and negative. My husband's one quality I dont like is short temper. Of late he has changed a lot but earlier he used to get angry very fast. Sometimes when I used to tell him why do you get angry in front of everyone, he used to say when I get anger then only I can show not later. He has the quality of appreciation and does not find fault and say something hurting us. Whereas my brother in law doesnot appreciate so fast, he appreciates his own people but till today he has not appreciated my cooking. Dont know whether he used to appreciate his wife when she was alive because eleven years before she died.

    The secret of being Happy is accepting where you are in life and making the most out of everyday










     
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    @iyerviji ....Such lovely snippet viji maa....

    Yes I agree with you 100%. Having a good, understanding and loving husband is the best blessing in life, which makes the life complete and content.
     
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    Thanksdear for making my day with your first feedback and making me happy. Glad you agree with me
     
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    its very true. God never does anything half heartedly! He knows who deserves whom and rightly brings them together!

    Falling in love is a mystery till date which I cant understand. ITs not about putting two straws in a cooldrink and drinking, not about roaming about in malls every week.....or so forth

    it about doing small things which the other person loves the most. But this doesn't mean my husband is awesome piece. There are days he drives me crazy....those days I wouldn't hesitate to call satan on earth and ask him to whisk away my husband for a few days in hell.

    That said, there is no oneelse I would be with either!

    I am glad you found your soulmate iyerviji ma. May god bless you both with lots and lots small and cute happiness!
     
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    Welcome to my thread and glad to get your fb dear. Very true dear love is doing small things which the other person loves most. Dont worry dear when you come to my age, I have not seen your profie and dont know how old you are , you will love him more and say whatever I havesaid
     
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