Discussion in 'Relationship With In-Laws' started by coolpinky, Mar 6, 2013.
Welcome to my club
No CB, its not inappropriate..
I can handle my expenses... It was just a point made because I dont get how DH will become pauper because of me when I am paying for all my expenses... :confused2:
Just thought now.. what would happen if I would quit my job... God, please please don't let that happen... Atleast I get to turnon computer now.. I'll not be surprised if PILs tell that you are wasting DS money by turning on computer :shaking::bang
Forget about paying the bill. MIL cant even take if DH joins me to the doc.
She just goes mad. But even if she gets cold, only her DS(not even her DH) should take her to doc.
U too!!! :confused2:. I thought i was the only one. May be our club membership will still increase.
I would like to answer this even though this query is not directed to me.
Yes I think that I will not even get food to eat if I leave my job. This fear keeps me going even though I have had to deal with horrible boss last year.
No going into pity mode ok.....tsk
As we ourselves are not getting anything.
Getting into pity mode waiting for a boomerang to get hit
Though its not fear of food in my case, the fear of not even having my other basic needs met, keeps me going, even if I contemplate quitting to be stress-free for sometime.
Infact I dont wait for anything for my DH to pay. .
Whatever stuff I need i will buy it on my own and only very small things of mine, I include in the groceries list and that too very rare.
CP..i too do the same thing. I use to include only my shampoo on the monthly list but stopped it now after fil said that brand is not available in the store.
Seeing the comments , thinking about hostel days where we earn happily , spend even more happily , enjoy life to the fullest