Thank you. Problem is when she comes To USA,she feels it is her son’s home and she will Sit with legs crossed 24/7 and just sit and judge me. It is so irritating when she even comments the way I stand and the way I walk!! She will not cook but if at all she wants,am Supposed to cut all the veggies and keep everything ready. She likes to join us when we go Outside,movies,vacations and restaurants(only Indian) but any little help she won’t do. When she comes here,I have to ask permission even to a grocery store! According to her..am enjoying myself and that is entertainment.. Just writing about her makes my boood boil. If I may say one thing..I usually avoid people am not comfortable with coz I believe “hate is a strong word”.so I maintain a distance.. With the mil..it is tough and I feel Extremely irritated with her. I just don’t want to even be around her but as I said..I won’t stop my husband and my kid from meeting her or even financial help. Just little worried with kid as she is vulnerable and for a child when someone says someThing sweet,they will be loved. My MIL speaks like honey.