I think this is very rare issue which i am going through. Actually I stay in Bahrain and now moving to Abu Dhabi with my hubby. My issue here is spending my own hard earned money on my own parents on which my hubby gets irritated. Actually problem started when i wanted to order a gold ring for my mother. my hubby is so selfish that he doesn't want me to spend money on my own mother. He started behaving very weirdly and every time what ever I take for my mother he wants me to take for his own mother also. And because of his behavior i couldn't place an order today but my heart is really paining that i don't even have right to spend my own money on my mother. i have decided that i will place an order without my hubby's idea. do you think what am i doing is correct. and i really need your valuable suggestion how to handle my hubby during these situations. Because of this i have started hating my hubby and my in laws. always he has to compare his parents with mine and because of which i really do not feel like getting close to my in laws. its my hubby's behavior that always keeps me to stay away from my in laws.