Is your husband your dream man

alsu · Feb 16, 2011

Mine is a love marriage..its 8yrs now v know each other.. wat all i expected was in him is there. He is smart, good behaviour, caring, loving, good sense in dressing, etc etc., v wer as lovers enjoyed so much and tht period is a memorable one..

after marriage its all there but he has become more matured and responsible.. but still there r times where v really feel v wouldnt have been happier without marrying.. atleast one of us should take up the responsibility right?? im younger to him by 7yrs.. coz of this i dont know but takes care of me like a kid. s ofcourse v fight a lot as both of us r short tempered. but solve it quickly.. no ego or wait for somebody to say sorry first. he is a good speaker. so convinces me quickly..

we r blessed and enjoying every moment in life..

iyerviji · Feb 16, 2011

Dear gdd

Glad to know that your husband is more than your imagination. Glad to hear about the good qualities of your husband. Have a happy married life.

raji2678 · Feb 17, 2011

Nice to read, Aunty. My hubby has surpassed my dreams!

iyerviji · Feb 22, 2011

Dear gdd

Glad to know that though your husband is not your dream man, but a perfect husband for you. Good to know that he manages superbly between his parents and you. That is what required in married life because for a man both parents and wife are important. All the best for a happy married life.

iyerviji · Feb 22, 2011

Dear Alsu

Glad to know that you got the man you wanted and after marriage he has become more matured and responsible and taking good care of you and you are enjoying every moment of your married life.

iyerviji · Feb 22, 2011

Raji dear glad to know that you wanted the man you wanted.

umaamruth · Mar 12, 2011

hi maam,

hi ma, i am new to this site.i liked the way u gave ur explanation about the latha's husband and MIL.as u said they wont behave in such a manner if the same thing happens to their sisters.but they expect a lot from their wives.it is not fair,right.when both r women,y they want different reactions.but i personally feel it is very common to us.it is which we r becoming emotionally stronger and stronger. thanks to so called men.ok ma, bye. i will try to read all ur blogs.rest innext.

anika987 · Apr 14, 2020

iyerviji said: ↑

My husband was not my dream man but later he became my dream man. At young age you have your dreams of getting a husband who is a super man, very handsome, loving, romantic etc. etc. I also dreamt like that before marriage.

Ours was arranged marriage. In my days it was a different situation. The horoscopes should match, the boy will come and see the girl with family. It is not only his liking but everyone in the family should like the girl and they expect that she should be an adjusting type. The marriage was decided by the parents. I was very scared to tell my opinion those days. When I got married I found that he is a simple man , having his own ideas , never expecting anything from anyone but doing his duty and loving and caring. He does not believe in giving gifts or going out for a party for occasions but he is very loving and caring.

He has always been by my side for everything. He is the one who takes decision and me and my children follow his advice.

Though we are north pole and south pole , now we are made for each other. He is very fond of talking and wherever he goes , he entertains people. We both are social , so enjoy going anywhere. He might not be modern in his dressing but his ideas are modern. He does lot of social service and always ready to help anyone but if anyone tries to act funny he wont leave them. He is very straight forward.

On the whole he is a gem of a person.

How about you, is your husband the right choice.
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Old but Cute thread...

My husband is too good for me.

True I had dreams to have a handsome,Rich etc etc guy BUT at that age we are blinded by romantic novels and movies..

My husband has his plus and minus just like me.He can be very lazy etc but is very tolerant and I feel If not him as my husband..probably I would have been divorced by any other guy for the tantrums,insecurity which I had.Am far from that but still a long way to go..

The expectations guys have of girls these days..I won’t even fulfill one of them.

I have complete freedom and he respects me totally for whatever the person I am.

I didn’t get what I wanted BUT MORE THAN WHAT I SHOULD GET!

iyerviji · Apr 14, 2020

anika987 said: ↑

Old but Cute thread...

My husband is too good for me.

True I had dreams to have a handsome,Rich etc etc guy BUT at that age we are blinded by romantic novels and movies..

My husband has his plus and minus just like me.He can be very lazy etc but is very tolerant and I feel If not him as my husband..probably I would have been divorced by any other guy for the tantrums,insecurity which I had.Am far from that but still a long way to go..

The expectations guys have of girls these days..I won’t even fulfill one of them.

I have complete freedom and he respects me totally for whatever the person I am.

I didn’t get what I wanted BUT MORE THAN WHAT I SHOULD GET!
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Thanks for reviving my old thread. Glad to know your husband is too good for you. Glad you got more than you wanted
God bless you

meenu2020 · Apr 15, 2020

well...I can't say he is my dream man...because dream man is the one who never exist. For my husband he is the one with whom I am sharing my life with 50-50 % partnership. Actual definition of right choice for you in my opinion is one with whom you can spend your whole life...that is it.