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Discussion in 'Married Life' started by infinitehopes, Feb 28, 2009.

  1. infinitehopes

    infinitehopes Bronze IL'ite

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    Malyatha,

    Can't believe it - you wanted to say NOTHING??? :)
     
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    Malyatha Gold IL'ite

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    Yes. For once in a great while, I'm actually struck SPEECHLESS!!!!
     
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    why whats the matter malyatha..... i thought u and infinitehopes were keeping this thread kicking, and fun to read?:)
     
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    Malyatha Gold IL'ite

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    Ms Infinite Hopes is being smug and not playing ball, Poonam. So I'm going to play dumb to bring her out and get her to swing, LOL. :rotfl
     
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    Rihana Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    No. :) we are both lucky to have a lot of confidence in each other that the items in the shops will not be brought home :rotfl
     
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    HI there

    i have a different story i would say... i never looked at boys as i was a "good" girl per say during my college days. but now that i am married, i have strated noticiing men :idea
    i can now tell if a boy has shaved or not/what perfume he is wearing etc.. this is probably coz i used to be at a loos of ideas when thinking of a gift for my husband Drowning anyways, this also gives me a chance to tell me husband that if he likes angelina jolie/aishwarya rai, i am a die-hard fan of Russel crow/Hritik. SO he better watch out..... :)

    any one with the same idea?
     
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    Dear Malyatha,
    For "technical reasons" I was silent on these posts :) Don't know if you read my blog.

    Well, its always good to know that your DH is an eye candy himself - but leave him for others dear... I think what CharuKaur says is quite true.. by "window shopping (with no intention of buying)" we kind of keep them on the toes and they realize they need to keep in good shape, dress well, smell well - to get us closer :)

    Its important for us to feel interested right? I feel they will feel alive when once is a while we tell them - someone looks better than him.

    I don't think it will make them feel insecure.. what do you think?

    Charu,
    Well posted ! I think you are helping maintain the interest!
     
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    Hi Malyatha,
    Am I still being a smug? Looking for your response !

    Hi Ladies,
    When I read myselfjunk's post, I thought about this thread. As SS said earlier, there has to be something happening and not all needs to be done jointly. I think its important to keep up the spirit in marriage. Else it can just become a fomality!

    Can we drift a little from the topic and try to find out - what we should do to keep our marriage interesting?

    What are your thoughts / ideas?
     
    Last edited: Mar 20, 2009

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