I had a watsapp group until last year with kindergarten moms and all the mothers spoke to each other like best buddies. Then after KG ended..abruptly there is no conversation in the group.I tried to initiate,one or two messages and then It stopped. Same way I got numbers of ladies who were friendly be it in gym or other places, and tried to call once in a while.They speak well but it is only me doing the contacting. In my neighborhood also, they talk like best buddies and I used to go to one of the ladies home nearby DP she always feel am not mingling but I realized she never comes to my home!! Not even once!! this keeps happening a lot. There is a proverb that grass looks greener and only when we get closer one knows the true story of how friendships really are. People seem friendly.I have many acquaintances and usually I have come to an understanding this is how it will be. However..sometimes feel is this normal..is this common? Maybe it’s age,proximity,priorities..