is sex a important part of HAPPY MARRIED LIFE?

Re: Men give love for S_X and women give S_X for love???

hmmm...may be I couldnt reproduce the exact wordings which has made it confusing...well, it was not an article but a complete book (must be around 100-150 pages) based on some study...I'll post you the name in case I come across it once more.....

 

Love comes first....
And it leads to sex...
It makes love more deeper...
Which brings more pleasure to sex...
Thus Love and Sex Keeps the relation strong......

Thats what i felt in my life...:thumbsup

 

Hi dear!

i know i am not much aged to discuss on the topic but i can tell my views know??

for a wonderful love life after marriage its not just a sex alone that both women and men enjoy!

they first of all need some sweet affectionate actions revealing their love out!

like a small kiss in the forehead a warm hug these all brings the couple together!

according to me sex is not a part but a little major part of life!

you heard of people who are close in their hearts hearts having sex often!
even a external touch brings them internally together!

after a long gap of fight when couples unite they feel like having sex! its just an exposure of over love!
they need them a lot! so it plays a major part in married life i hope!:cheers

 

Re: Men give love for S_X and women give S_X for love???

Wow! Surprising. There may be some truth to it.

 

SEX... How important is it a relationship ?

Dear ilites,

I always used to wonder how important is sex in a married couple's life!

Because... my DH & I hardly have anytime left for it in our hectic routine of our day to day life.
So it started like...SEX...twice a day then slowly moved in like having it 4 days once ... then weekly once ... ten days once... now it has turned into 3 week once...
Is it good or healthy in a relationship!!!

Can anybody share your opinion here.

Cheers!!!:thumbsup

 

Re: SEX... How important is it a relationship ?

No one, absolutely no one, will be able to tell you what is a "normal" frequency. It varies for every couple and as long as they both find whatever frequency works for them, thats normal - for them.

Really, if someone is telling you this is normal or that is normal, dont believe it.

But if one of the spouse is feeling it is a problem area, then the couple needs to have a frank talk.

 

CP,

You must remember one thing.. EVERYTHING doesnt go by books !

What suits you may not suit another person. What is good / bad for you may not be the same for another soul.

Public forums wont be the best place to answer every questions in our lives. Especially, the initmacy part. So, analyse wether certain things in your life will make your life better or worse and go accordingly.

Just by 5 members writing that it a'int good and the other 5 write it is alright, is not going to help you. Instead, do what best suits you and your hubby.

Offlate, there has been soo many threads on such personal topics, which starts as a genuine one but goes haywire and at the end makes no sense or help to the OP. We have seen so much of this in the recent past. I dont want your concern to land there. You are a very genuine member and your threads should get good and ardent responses. Hence I close this thread. I hope you understand why I did that. I know you will.

Thanks.