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is premarital sex right?

Discussion in 'Intimacy' started by anurajiv, Jan 7, 2010.

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  1. Malavika81

    Malavika81 Bronze IL'ite

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    Spidey, pour in your opinions on the subject instead of asking for the verdict :wink:

    I don't think we'll ever get a conclusive verdict on this subject with two diametrically opposite schools of thought.

    But you can always pick a side of the debate and tell us what your personal opinions are. :)

    P.S: The original thread was old and dead and it got unearthed when a new thread with similar topic got merged with the old one.
     
  2. Malavika81

    Malavika81 Bronze IL'ite

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    Oops, my bad Spidey :) I failed to notice your posts last time around. So yes, the verdict is still up in the air LOL
     
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    rkp New IL'ite

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    No, it is nor right. Sex before marriage and outside marriage is the same thing. One is acting on lust then. Lust takes oneself away from God.

    If one is not even pure and clean till marriage and has lost virginity (this applies to both - men and women equally) then what is the guarantee that the person will not go astray/be tempted again after marriage? There are repurcussions also like STD, unwed pregnancies, not being able to marry the lover etc.

    One should wait till after marriage.

    Cheers.
     
  4. Spiderman1

    Spiderman1 Gold IL'ite

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    Eh!? :roll:
    Kabutsch!

    Ofcourse everyone needs to take a shower even before marriage. Or do I misunderstand 'clean'? shakehead
     
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  5. Malavika81

    Malavika81 Bronze IL'ite

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    So what about people who are already away from God or don't believe in him? Where does lust take them?

    So what is the guarantee that the person who has been 'pure and clean' before marriage will not go astray after marriage?

    There are a few more things missing on the list. Black plague, Spanish flu, SARS, failed monsoons, Bombay terrorist attacks, global warming, Rwandan genocide......... as long as we are stating things for dramatic effect to vilify premarital sex, a few more to the list.wouldn't hurt and in fact will make it sound like pre-marital sex is Euryale, Stheno, Medusa, Scylla and Charybdes all rolled into one. Mission Accomplished.
     
  6. mithy232

    mithy232 Silver IL'ite

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    Malavika, you have a great sense of humour :rotfl

    Fantastic reply :thumbsup
    This thread is never-ending.
     
  7. Malavika81

    Malavika81 Bronze IL'ite

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    Thanks Mithy. Good to know atleast someone likes my sense of humour LOL
     
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    Well its an individual choice, we are no one to judge others.
     
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    Spiderman1 Gold IL'ite

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    ^ Agreed with above.
     
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