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is premarital sex right?

Discussion in 'Intimacy' started by anurajiv, Jan 7, 2010.

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  1. anurajiv

    anurajiv New IL'ite

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    hello i just wanna enquire u one thing. u all knew that film actress khushboo once said that premarital sex with safety measures aren't a sin and it is not cheating of ur future hubby as your honesty with ur hubby begins only after de marriage.i have heard similar quotes in many femine shows.i was a virgin when i was married and i only had sex with my hubby.i feel iam pure and clean and doesn't feel any loss in not having sex before marriage.

    is it right to have sex before marriage
     
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  2. Rihana

    Rihana IL Hall of Fame

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    I would say it is "not wrong".

    There was another older thread on this topic with interesting poll options.
     
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    abibaby Silver IL'ite

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    To have pre marital sex or not is totally a personal choice. JMO.
     
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    SriVidya75 Platinum IL'ite

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    If you have not had sex before marriage, and you felt you were pure and clean, why raise this question now after marriage? what information are you expecting? and how does it benefit you?:bonk
     
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    Renu1999 Bronze IL'ite

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    right or wrong depends on individual person. In my opinion that is not right.....
     
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    rosegirl Bronze IL'ite

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    Hi,
    The way you say pure & clean etc shows how judgemental you are about pre marital sex ...
    Anyway, I feel pre-marital sex with hubby-to-be or lover is ok for both boys and girls. As Kushboo said, I think after marriage how far they are faithful is what really matters ..

    Sometimes I think is really sex the yardstick for faithfulness ? .... A woman can be faithful and chaste to her husband but might be mentally away from him and thinking of another guy and vice versa ... is that really pure and clean ?
     
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    chitrav Senior IL'ite

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    hi,
    My opinion is wrong, others have different opinion.
     
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    Rakhii Moderator IL Hall of Fame

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    Pure and clean? Sorry if I am coming across as rude but are we talking about butter or sandalwood here?

    According to me it is not wrong. Its a personal choice, totally. Anyway...I think sex is totally overrated. just my opinion
     
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    natpudan Gold IL'ite

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    to me it's not acceptable.

    there is no link with purity & cleanliness.

    even a prostitute might feel pure & clean because that's her profession by choice or not.

    just because she is having so many physical relationships, doesn't mean her mind is dirty.

    by not intentionally losing virginity is far better than cheating in a married life.
     
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    Manaswini08 Bronze IL'ite

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    I don't think we can pass judgement on such a topic. Just because someone had premarital sex does not mean that what they did was "wrong". It probably felt very "RIGHT" at that moment in time.

    We each do cross bridges in life when we come to it. Some may not have to cross any...while some may have to cross a lot.

    And by the way, sex (marital or premartial) has nothing to do with feeling pure and clean.
     
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