I havea problem.My husband is a good guy BUT he in his free time he loves watching his english serials or sports or goes for cricket or play games.He just does not spend time with me.If I want to speak to him for something,he is like "not now" I cannot speak to him when he gets up - now only I got up.not now. or when he goes to office -am just starting my day.not now. or when in office - day is too hectic.now now. when he comes back - I am tired.not now. when he is eating - allow me to eat in peace.not now. after he finished eating - I need some rest.now now. before going to bed - I need a break.watching some sports.not now. When the hell would I talk to him???what is this?I am not a bloody roommate? If I get angry and tell him that..he will be like "go and see every other couple.noone sits and chats.people r so busy.go do some work" I got sooooooo mad.I started picking up fights and then I keep quiet.I see him then coming and talk to me.Aha! that's the trick. I started fighting more and more and then keep quiet.After the fights,he keeps talking to me and trying to comfort me.I love that. I realised one thing..for the past two months EVERYDAY we have fought a lot! Now,I do not like that. I am getting too frustrated.Took it to another level!Today I did not even want to look at him.I banged the door on his face and went to the other room.In a way,I feel relieved.I am waiting for him to come to me.Once,he comforts me sometimes we even have makeup sex.What the heck???????Now,am thinking.."where is this marriage heading?things should not work this way." Bluntly,I am very very very very bored with him if we do not fight.probably he is tonly when we fight,we talk and things lead to other things.I don't know what to do.