is it worth for a marriage

never do that
i know my friends where parents pressurised that 24 yrs is hightime and just got them married to soem xyz and trust me 70% of them are suffering where as i seen my cousins who patiently waited and got the partenr they wanted but one thing..NO MATTER ARRANGED OR LOVE NO MATTER LATE OR EARLY..you get to know only aafter marriage and some time how a person is and can turn to be

 

Arranged marriages generally get delayed... cos you dont click instantly with a person for the biggest episode of your life.
Also in love marriage only the person involved selects the spouse but in arranged marr a lot of ppl are putting in their views & hence the person has to match everyone's criteria... for even initial levels of talks to start.

Getting married to a RIGHT partner to me is a mirage!!
The person himself or herself has to fix a target date/ expectations for himself/herself to get married & then take a call from available options... else u keep waiting for a lifetime for a MR. / MS RIGHT.

I was @ 25 when my mom went into depression for me not getting married.. so to get her out of hosp I told her ok fine I'll finalise someone by end of this month. I stood by my words. Intially she wud approve any T D H as a suitable groom & I wud end up in arguments with her.. since those weren't my criteria... but once I decided an end date for me I zeroed in on my DH by end of mnth.

 

one of my cousins marrried at the age of 37. She is 39 now leading a happy married life with a understanding and cooperative husband. The only problem is that she could not conceive till now despite of their sincere efforts. And added to that she is getting very irregular periods sometimes late by 4 to 5 months after marriage. Before marriage she used to get regular periods.
Hope GOD will bless her soon with a babe

 

one cant wait forever...else all the good ones will be taken...
lol
cheers
mum of tani