Is It Necessary To Take Decisions Together In Marriage? I dont think it is necessary for small small things.. BUT ..it is a major decision involving lot of money. In this case mutual decision is important because you are also going to live and spend rest of your life there... "Every one told that house not good no sunlight rooms very smalletc" You didnt see the house, right ? Be diplomatic, show some excitement and request him to show you this house . You go there with him and if you dont like it try to convince him.. "But he will ask me about how much money will my mother give me" Is it for buying this home? Did she already give it you. Why does she need to give it you. If he is asking to use this money for this home, be firm and tell him that it is your money and you will spend it only if you like the house.