Of late I am noticing that people in India or Bangalore specifically have let go of hospitality for kith and kin. I have been out of the country for 30 years and appreciate hospitality as one of the greatest thing in our Indian culture. When I go to India and call up my friends they will come over to see me whether in my relative's house or in a hotel. They don't say come over and have a meal with us etc. These are economically very well off friends. How did it happen that we who are out of the country will cook for 30 people and invite them to our homes while in India in spite of servants in the house they won't invite us home ? Do other people have a similar experience ? I would love to hear from them.