Dear Chith, Wonderful explanations! Through this post, I learned two things: 1. Not to advice anyone unless asked for. Usually, if something happens to any of my friends/relatives, I used to think I should have advised her/him then . Now I think being silent that time was gold coz the advice wasn't asked for. Secondly, I learnt that attachment and expectation are in the same bundle. That's true. I expect more from people with whom I am more attached. Thanks, Chith for making my mind clear:-D .