Hi everyone, I am 29 yrs, married for 7yrs with a 5yr old daughter. Me and my hus have very frequent fights, like we will be ok for 2 months and they we will have a fight and not talk for 2 to 3 months. This a really taking a toll on me. The main reason for fights are finances. And this has been the reason since the last 7 yrs. I don't have mother-in -law problems since she passed away , also sister in laws mind their own business and don't bother that much. But when one;s problem is your own husband , what can I do. We both are very different natured , I am the practical type where I like the bills to be paid on time and generally don't like any last minute jitters. He on the other hand is total opp. The problem is he never has money when it is needed. He is too much into charity. He gives priority to charity than any other expenses. So we end up fighting. Even before 15 days I told him to book train tickets for my sis wedding.That month he had given me only 10 % of the monthly expenses that he normally gives and had told me I will give the remaining money later. In that miniscule amt he is telling me give me that money to book the tickets , I will return it tomorrow. The problem is his tomorrow never comes and so I got irritated and I told him " first of all you give me X amt and in that you are asking half the amt , how do you expect me to run the house". He is telling me you have to adjust and all rubbish. He tells me I have stopped giving charity but I don't trust him . I am saying this because he has lied in the past. So now we both have stopped talking to each other and also I have stopped asking him for any money or anything regarding payments of bill. But how long will this continue. He will never come for truce and of the 1000 times that we have fought , I am the only person who has to say sorry even if it is not my fault. No amount of talking has done any good, even kindly or otherwise. Also counselling has not helped because he thinks whatever he has done is correct. Otherwise he is a very good person and father , no vices .. nothing. But his overconfidence in himself bugs me and also he has no financial sense. Wastes money a lot where it could have been saved, and even if I tell him kindly do like this he will say yes and do the exact opp behind my back. I don't know what to do. What should my approach be towards him. pls advice.