My husband is very irresponsible. He doesn't have a job or business. I have to take care of the entire household expense, rent, children's fee everything. I am working full time and also do part time works to make both ends meet. Any business I suggest or start he is not at all interested. Gives lame excuses that it will not work out. I am taking all the responsibility without complaint. What's pains me most is his abusive behavior. He gets angry at silly things. He cannot control his anger he abuses physically too. The thing I cannot tolerate is his abusive language. And the worst part is he abuses my family and says bad words about them. Which I am unable to bear. Pls suggest what to do. I cannot leave him. I want to just change him.