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Internet/social Media/trolling/opinions..

Discussion in 'Health Issues' started by anika987, Mar 8, 2021.

  1. anika987

    anika987 IL Hall of Fame

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    IL is genuine.I honestly feel that way coz I have made good virtual friends and mostly many are caring here.
    I have had people get frustrated with me BUT before I could speak for myself..many have jumped to my rescue and am truly thankful for that.However..rest of the internet does not seem this way...

    Social Media is deadly.When I went to read about "Homemaker"..more than supportive articles..
    there were so many people trashing down homemakers.One article lead to another and more and more I read,it was getting very toxic.I felt like the entire world is against homemakers and many can get super viscious about them.Literally I read more than 100 comments against homemakers and there are a million more but I felt so attacked.her real story

    I closed the laptop.

    I could not sleep for many days.not one wink.My home is in shambles,did not do any work for a week,I look a mess.I am back to caffiene.

    Now I am into counseling.Some pointers..

    I gave power to someone sitting on some other corner of the world rip me apart.We do not know that person's real story, what gave her/him the right to be that nasty,what insecurities,complexes they are having.

    Honest,really confident people do not going around destroying people with words.To justify one's own perceptions and beliefs,one cannot be nasty.There are viewpoints,personal priorities and this world will be happier place if one respects the other person's lifestyle.

    I gave an example of a homemaker.However,the same can happen to career women or other factors like putting down people coz of their looks,style,lifestyle anything..

    I can tell with pride and even my IL friend's will vouch that ..even in this anonymous forum I believe one should be making others feel safe,understand their concern and help them and so I honestly as far as I know never been rude.

    coz..INTERGRITY MEANS DOING THE RIGHT THING EVEN IN NOONE IS WATCHING.

    Anyways,Social media should be used carefully.I reduced my visits to fb but honestly,compared to many other sites fb,instagram is not so bad as long as you understand people highlight only the positives of their lives and we do not compare and get too involved.

    Most dangerous is...asking "INTERNET OPINIONS".It is deadly.I can vouch for that.
    Today am suffering because many a times,not just yesterday I have gone to the internet to read random opinions from strangers and it ended up a disaster.

    Choose wisely.Choose what content you read wisely.The world is so filled with negativity but please do not encourage any other kind of negativity especially by reading internet opinions.Come to a valid site like IL.

    I wanted to blog about this coz sometimes many are internally suffering without any support system and do not know whom to ask and fall prey to the internet.I am one amongst them and this time I learnt my lesson big time.

    I am also getting counseling done and my psychologist wanted to me understand about social media.


    Anyways,as much I know this IL is filled many confident,positive women who knows what I am talking..this is for some readers who are similar like me.

    Please start to protect yourself.

    Take care.Love u all!
     
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    Rihana Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    I have found that if I read randomly on a given topic, I usually end up wasting that time. It takes some careful searching and sifting to find material worth reading.
     
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    anika987 IL Hall of Fame

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    Exactly!

    Everyone is writing from their viewpoints,perceptions,insecurities and how they see life.This is what my counselor thought me.

    I don’t judge them but perceptions are different and I am learning to respect them.

    However..when it takes a turn to viciousness then it’s not right.

    I stopped scrolling social media.Life is so much better these days:)
     
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    Rihana Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    What is your opinion of Kangana Ranaut's tweets?

    One example: Kangana recently said that people should be fined or imprisoned for having a third child. A comedian pointed out that Kangana has two siblings herself. In response, Kangana called that comedian " an annoying dumb fool" among many other things. Kangana Ranaut wants ‘fine or imprisonment for 3rd child’ to control population, reacts to reminder about own 2 siblings
     
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    Sometimes she is smart and other times she is over smart..

    Where does she get this guts from to talk whatever she wants? Without any fear of the mob?

    Sometimes wonder if there is some big shot backing her.

    But anyways..considering India and population problem especially in the under privileged class..maybe she meant it in that tone probably..

    At the same time..can rich people afford three kids? They can very well
    Due to finances.

    Problem is not being a child to this world but raising them well..

    there is no right or wrong here maybe
     
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    You missed the point in the question. I was talking about Kangana's tweet's tone not the nitty-gritty of the overpopulation problem.

    Kangana is rude, brash, and displays most of the qualities trolls have including viciousness. She called that comedian an annoying dumb fool. Simply not needed.

    Yet she has admirers and reluctant admirers. Apparently, including you. : )
     
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    Yeah what to do! I admit:D

    I secretly loveeeeeeeeee her guts!:D

    What a woman! I know she is rude but she is too fierce! She never yells in public but she speaks what she wants to speaks.

    For eg: kareena appears arrogant and irritating but with Kangana I cannot sense any of that from my point of view.

    Apart from that the roles she gets to play in movies,the way she looks,her dressing sense,her walk,her confidence..

    have you seen her do yoga! Super flexible she is!

    I was a huge fan of vyjayantimala (craze I had as a child),jayalalitha and now kangana:)

    powerful,fierce women.

    What I love about them is no matter what they do..I cannot seem to hate them.

    I like to look at them from afar and just admire.they are like fire.one cannot get close.
     

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