Some of you already know the background info. Background: Inlaws (esp mil and sil2) were horrible to me when we lived in India for 2yrs after marriage. We lived in the same city but not in the same house - but they still managed to control my husband so much and cause terrible fights. I concieved accidentally in this mess and they increased their harassment 10x. Sil2 was not married then. She was extremely jealous of me particularly because I was more educated and had a well paying job. She used to gang up with mil and make my life miserable. After 2 yrs we moved to US and I cut them off. I refused to give them access to DS too. I had to fight massive battles with H for this and I can never forgive DH for ganging up with them during the most trying times of my life. SIL2 got married last year and she still has jealousy issues. her dh makes 6 figure money but she always comparing. DH and I are both work full time, so we make significantly more. Now: We lived in US for 4yrs and moved to London last year. Inlaws never visited us in the US. They are now visiting us. I had no contacts /no talking for over 4+ yrs now. They started being really nice and very supportive. Looking after DS, telling me to take rest etc. I was VERY uncomfortable with this sudden fake change. We are US citizens. Everytime FIL asked me about our plans to return, I told him I dont know. You should see his face drowning in disappointment that im not saying when we will return to India. They have no health issues. Totally fine now. They are extremely bored in life (even here with us) and have empty nest syndrome. FIL told us one day - earn x amount and come back. I just dont understand how they think PRETENDING to be nice will wipe out all the hurt and misery they caused. They are fine health wise - so what will change is we move back to India? This SIL2 bitch is slowly stirring this because she somehow whats us to have less than her (quality of life, money, her kids getting better education etc). DH is completely blind again because they are PRETENDING to be really nice. He thinks we should move back in 3-4 yrs. I am thinking when they are both alive and there for each other, what will we do by going there? They have hired help for everything. If they dont know how to keep themselves entertained, should i give up my job, uproot my home and go there to entertain? In all this, SIL1 and SIL2 are very quiet. Why cant they move back to entertain parenrs for a while?? Inlaws are leaving this weekend. Asking us repeatedly and brainwashing DH to come back. FOR WHAT???