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Discussion in 'Snippets of Life (Non-Fiction)' started by Sriniketan, Apr 1, 2008.

  1. Sriniketan

    Sriniketan IL Hall of Fame

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    dear friends,

    during a conversation with my parents, they told me what they had read in a religious magazine...

    It runs as follows:
    'Women gets half the share of puniyam from her husband and not his papams'. Bow
    But when she does any puniyam, it stays with her but her papams are shared by her DH.Rant'
    This is being written in "Manu smirthi'---ancient law book, right!:bowdown

    Okay do you think this as a boon or a bane to the ma(le)n kind!
    (Poor guys!)

    We all know that based on the above law Sage Valmiki let go off his bandit-job and wrote the great epic 'The Ramayana'.

    When we (of course some) blame that this is a male-chauvinistic society, laws are made by only males...what do we say about this....
    This is also written by a male...

    So let us do 'puniya kaaryam' and enjoy the share from our DH too...


    sriniketan
     
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  2. srinivasan_vanaja

    srinivasan_vanaja Gold IL'ite

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    hi sriniketan,

    may be because, the wives are always introduced as "better halves". better halves are entitled to get only better treatments :wink:. i said it in a lighter sense.

    your last sentence carries the explanation. though 50% of woman's paapam goes to man and women are on the safer side, a woman feels that let us do only "punya karyam" (like you sriniketan).

    thats why women are bestowed with more punyams.
     
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    puni88 Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    Hi Sriniketan,
    It is good to know this Manu shastra about females and males.
    I think most of the men deserves that because they don't treat females that good.
    More over, we females go thru so much in life from our marriage life, new in-laws, pregrancy, delivery and raising kids ....so our sins are already reduced.

    Regards.
     
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    vanaja...

    'better halves' ......or 'bitter halves' as claimed some.Big Laugh. sure better halves must have better treatments...

    Me doing lot of puniyams how??bonk
    You are the one who is doing social services through Sai Seva Sangham...

    sriniketan
     
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    Punitha,

    True, in what you had stated that women's pavams are reduced.
    I used to remember that when a person is suffering they say that his/her pavam is being reduced...

    Beware 'man'kind do only good things otherwise you are the only one to suffer for your bad deeds....

    sriniketan
     
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    Sowparnika Silver IL'ite

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    hi,
    sriniketan maam,i've also heard about this rule...one of the small consolations we have in the midst of so many rules and restrictions laid down for women....

    while we don't know(atleast, i don't !) on what basis this rule was laid down,i had an interesting thought...
    i think the ancient laws would have thought that women,being naturally virtuous, did good deeds without being told,which led to their punyam.men,on the other hand,needed to be reminded to do good to others,so half their punya went to the women behind them, who motivated them to do it....
    women,generally, did'nt do negative things on their own,but were coerced by men into doing it..so half their paapam goes to the men who forced them into it....
    on the other hand, men dont follow our advice,and easily end up doing the wrong things,so we don't have to share their paapams...:)

    this is just a funny thought that occured to me....men, dont be offended...!!(esp those of u on IL...we know u r not that sort...!!)

    rgds,
    sowpar
     
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    Sowparnika,

    Your thought made me think.... it is true...

    Whenever we take a look at the puranas, the wives advise but the husbands don't take their advice and go on till they meet their end.Drowning

    eg. Ravana--Mandodhari, Vaali---Thaara...

    sriniketan

    PS----no ma'am please...:bowdown
     
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    puni88 Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    I guess, my most of sins/pavams are reduced with my pregnancy and post delivery by doing seva to my MILBig LaughBig Laugh

     
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    puni88 Moderator Staff Member IL Hall of Fame

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    I agree with you Srini and Sowparnika...
    but there are some exceptions too like mentioned in Sirniketan's egs.

     
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    my dear dear bhargavi
    its a pleasure to read urs..so entertaining ur turningout to be.. i never knew of such a thing:bowdown so here i have written some special for uBig Laugh

    Little did I know
    I am going to be this blessed
    for have I a hubby too good
    so all his puniyams and half
    will be mine for good
    but I am the evil witch of west
    and poor hubby not know best
    will take over papam half and rest..:idea
     

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