Infertility - social and family aspects

Re: TTC but people around make the situation worst.

Padma,

You said they are cheap people.Hence IGNORE them.Period.There are certain things for which we could only reduce the intensity.

Good Luck!

 

Re: TTC but people around make the situation worst.

I agree with our friends..Just ignore all these people..Even if your mom talks or worries about this tell her not to care about all these as all these will pass on very soon with a good news.

So letz act like the three wise monkeys whom neglects unnecessary comments,arguments and vision.Take care.All the best.Loads and loads of baby dust to you :thumbsup

 

Hi All,
I am a new member.I want to share my feelings and emoions with all of you who are in the same boat as me.My husband and I have been married for 5 years and we are trying for a child.But I have diabtes and High blood pressure.I also am diagnosed with PCOS which my gynecologist said I got as I was taking insulin and my body has become insulin resistant(which I believe is the main cause of PCOS).Anyways, it is really depressing.All my friends have been blessed with children and possibly with whatever they want(atleast thats what i feel). I have also been trying to get a job ever since I lost my job at the end of 2008. All this is making me feel really depressed. I do not talk to my friends or go to social networking sites just to avoid seeing my juniors,friends or other people pregnant,posting pictures of their children etc. as I know I would get upset. I am really emotional and dont know what to do.Also a couple of my friends have stopped talking to me or having any form of contact as they fear I would be jealous of their happiness.I feel so bad. I feel God has blessed people who already have everything with more happiness. It's ironic to see how some people who are not ready to have a child or do not want one or incapable of taking care of one have a beautiful baby.But us who I feel are sooooo capable of providing a child with what it needs and showering with all love and more love, dont have a child :-(
Just today I received the blessed ghee from Garbaratchambigai and started the course today.I hope by God's grace all of us wanting to have a child are blessed with atleast 1.

with love to all
love2bamom

 

Hi love2bamom

Lovely user id.

Dont lose heart by comparing yourself with others. Everyone gets their share of happiness and grief in their lives. Dont cut down on social networking because you do not have kids. This would only lead to more depression. Try to feel happy for your friends or cousins who have kids and play with those kids. It would give you great relief. But if your friends are not talking to you because you are ttc and dont have kids, just dont bother about them. During ttc you need lots of positive energy and vibes around you. IL is a great place. You will get lot of friends who are in the same boat like you. Try to share your pain and happiness with us. We are all here to support you through tough times.

Now that you have received the ghee from the temple, start consuming that with utmost devotion. I am sure all our prayers will be answered one day and at that time, all these efforts and pains will seem worthwhile. Just hang in there and wait for our time...loads of baby dust to you dear.

 

Hey Luv2beamom,

My wishes for you and lots of baby dust.Now that you received the Ghee,consume it and soon you will see wonders.I can understand your plight when you get to see others posting the photos.Just stay away from them.The more you see ,the more you would be feeling bad.Be happy and I am sure that your day will come soon.

 

love2bemom,

Firstly your user id is very nice and God alwayz showers his devotees with what they really love to be
I can clearly comprehend with you as Im in more or less the same situation as you are in...no job n no kids...after a lot of thought into this my conclusion is not to worry on things that are not in our hands...I just heard this from someone yesterday and found it v.inspiring -'YOU LOSE A LOT OF ENERGY BY COMPARING YOURSELF WITH OTHERS'...this can make you weaker and itz not what you want. Be positive and stop comparing yourself with other people's lives...Things will happen when they have to and until then, look at it as an oppurtunity to enjoy life...May be God thought your kid should be born to better settled parents and hence waiting to gift you then...all the very best

 

I totally agree here....
there are very few things in life we can actually control. I feel many things in life including TTC are out of our control. Whenever it has to happen it will happen we can only njoy other things in life till then.

 

Hi Love2baMom!

my hugs to you dear, do not worry or put yourself down. you will definitely be a mom, god will bless you so. Everywhere there is a good as well as bad, so just leave the bad people who puts you down and spend the time with good people who supports you. There is a day for everybody, do not worry, bad or tough days won't last for long, you already got amma prasadam, so consume it with whole heartedly and full of faith, she will definitely take care of you and all of us. so just keep your fingers crossed, everything is going to be happen on your side. all the very best.

 

Hi friends,

Recently I got to know about Ashokarishtam available in Kerala arya vaidyasalai as a female companion related to timely periods and ovulation and keeping the uterus in very clean state for conception.

It can be consumed at 30 ml , twice a day (morning and evening, 30 mins before food).

I have tried it for a month. Have seen considerable changes in my monthly cycles. Its priced Rs.46 for 500 ml.

Good luck to our friends who are awaiting conception.