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Infertility Rocks !!!!!

Discussion in 'Fertility & Trying to Conceive' started by tweetyfan, Jul 7, 2010.

  1. tweetyfan

    tweetyfan Silver IL'ite

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    Hello Guys,Here's One

    These are not my words. But I feel the same way.

    A Talk With My Unborn Child
    By Amy Borens


    These arms of mine are still empty,
    It's been far too many years.
    I can hardly keep them hidden,
    The heartache and the tears.

    I am waiting for you, sweet angel
    To bless my life, my heart, my soul.
    I think I've been a good wife,
    Now I want so much a mother's role.

    My life doesn't seem complete.
    You are not there to hold.
    A big piece of my life is missing,
    Your destiny is yet untold.

    I see you in my dreams, baby.
    Ten little fingers and toes.
    You have your Mommy's blue eyes,
    And your daddy's ears and nose.

    When my eyes are closed I think,
    Will your room be pink or blue?
    And how much of my life will pass
    Before all my dreams come true?

    Will I ever know the joy
    Of rocking you at night?
    Telling bedtime stories
    And tucking you in tight?

    Will I ever be able to comfort you
    When you fall and scrape your knee?
    To kiss and make it better
    At the tender age of three?

    Can I watch you graduate
    And drive you to the mall?
    Your dad could take you fishing
    And teach you to play ball.

    Will you make me a grandma
    When I am old and gray?
    Looking back at my life,
    I would be blessed in every way.

    So why have I been left behind
    When I have so much to give?
    I would gladly show you the whole world
    If you could only come to live.

    Will my turn ever come?
    I search my anguished mind.
    But questions without answers
    Is all I seem to find.

    I go home every night
    And fight the tightness in my chest.
    The silence is so deafening
    In my big empty nest.

    I guess God has a plan for me
    And I shouldn't have such fear.
    But why you can't be in my life
    He hasn't made quite clear.

    I pray for you little one.
    Everyday, can you hear?
    So tell God we are ready
    To hold you forever dear.

    You would never go without.
    We would shower you with love.
    My little piece of heaven
    Sent from up above.
     
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  2. tweetyfan

    tweetyfan Silver IL'ite

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    Infertility Is...


    Watching your husband playing with your friend's baby and wishing you could give him one of his own

    Telling nurses to please take blood from your right arm because the veins in your left arm are all gone because of all the IVs you've had

    Avoiding people you haven't seen for a long time because you don't want to hear the question, "Do you have any kids yet ?"

    Feeling very left out when your friends start comparing their pregnancy or childbirth experiences

    Feeling like the whole town is pregnant except for you

    Getting tired of people always expecting you to do things because " You don't have any kids to worry about "

    Waking up in the middle of the night and wishing you could hear your baby crying

    Wishing you could give your parents grandchildren

    Wanting to fall apart if one other person says, "Why don't you adopt ?" Easy, right ?

    Sometimes avoiding friends who are pregnant or with newborns because you just can't handle the situation at that moment
     
  3. Godschild

    Godschild Silver IL'ite

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    tweetyfan,

    That was a beautiful poem which expresses the pain in simple words.
    Thanks for sharing.

    With Prayers,
    GC
     
  4. Cindhuja

    Cindhuja Gold IL'ite

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    Been there so i can understand very much ..Thanks for sharing such a wonderful thing.

    Sticky baby dust to all ladies in TTC :thumbsup
     
  5. tweetyfan

    tweetyfan Silver IL'ite

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    Watch this Infertility song on You Tube.Keep Tissues behind.

    You Tube- I Would Die For That

    [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Kelley Coffey battled with infertility for years[/FONT] and have beautiful son.
    [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
    [/FONT]
    [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]I Would die for That Lyrics

    Kelley Coffey infertility Song I Would Die For That Lyrics
    [/FONT]
    [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Jenny was my best friend.
    Went away one summer.
    Came back with a secret
    She just couldn't keep.
    A child inside her,
    Was just too much for her
    So she cried herself to sleep.
    [/FONT]
    [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]And she made a decision
    Some find hard to accept.
    To young to know that one day
    She might live to regret.
    [/FONT]
    [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]But I would die for that.
    Just to have one chance
    To hold in my hands
    All that she had.
    I would die for that.
    [/FONT]
    [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]I've been given so much,
    A husband that I love.
    So why do I feel incomplete?
    With every test and checkup
    We're told not to give up.
    He wonders if it's him.
    And I wonder if it's me.
    [/FONT]
    [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]All I want is a family,
    Like everyone else I see.
    And I won't understand it
    If it's not meant to be.
    [/FONT]
    [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Cause I would die for that.
    Just to have one chance
    To hold in my hands
    All that they have.
    I would die for that.
    [/FONT]
    [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]And I want to know what it's like
    To bring a dream to life.
    For that kind of love,
    What I'd give up!
    I would die for that.
    [/FONT]
    [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Sometimes it's hard to conceive,
    With all that I've got,
    And all I've achieved,
    What I want most
    Before my time is gone,
    Is to hear the words
    "I love you, Mom."
    [/FONT]
    [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]I would die for that.
    Just to have once chance
    To hold in my hands
    What so many have
    I would die for that.
    [/FONT]
    [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]And I want to know what it's like
    To bring a dream to life.
    How I would love
    What some give up.
    I would die ...
    I would die for that.
    [/FONT]
    [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Kelley Coffey infertility Song I Would Die For That Lyrics

    [/FONT][FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
    [/FONT]
     
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    kgp Senior IL'ite

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    Very nice one..
     
  7. tweetyfan

    tweetyfan Silver IL'ite

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    [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]
    http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=GLv-dR06mz4

    Dixie Sisters battled with infertility

    Infertility Lyrics for
    "Its so hard when it doesnt come easy"


    Back when we started
    We didn't know how hard it was
    Living on nothing
    But what the wind would bring to us
    Now we've got something
    I can imagine fighting for
    So why is fighting all that we're good at anymore
    [/FONT] [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]And sometimes I don't have the energy
    To prove everybody wrong
    And I try my best to be strong
    But you know it's so hard
    It's so hard
    [/FONT]
    [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]It's so hard when it doesn't come easy
    It's so hard when it doesn't come fast
    It's so hard when it doesn't come easy
    It's so hard
    [/FONT]
    [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]It felt like a given
    Something a woman's born to do
    A natural ambition
    To see a reflection of me and you
    [/FONT]
    [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]And I'd feel so guilty
    If that was a gift I couldn't give
    And could you be happy
    If life wasn't how we pictured it
    [/FONT]
    [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]And sometimes I just want to wait it out
    To prove everybody wrong
    And I need your help to move on
    Cause you know it's so hard
    It's so hard
    [/FONT]
    [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]It's so hard when it doesn't come easy
    It's so hard when it doesn't come fast
    It's so hard when it doesn't come easy
    So hard
    [/FONT]
    [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]I can live for the moment
    When all these clouds open up for me to see
    And show me a vision
    Of you and me swimming peacefully
    [/FONT]
    [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]Last night you told me
    That you can't remember
    How to feel free
    [/FONT]
    [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]It's so hard when it doesn't come easy
    It's so hard when it doesn't come fast
    It's so hard when it doesn't come easy, easy
    [/FONT]
    [FONT=Arial, Helvetica, sans-serif]It's so hard[/FONT]
     
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  8. sharanyadevi

    sharanyadevi Gold IL'ite

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    Lovely wordings and very true feelings...
    Thanks for sharing..
    It really touched my heart..
     
  9. VLR

    VLR Silver IL'ite

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    tweetyfan,
    lovely poems..:thumbsup
    exactly mirrors our feelings...
     
  10. tweetyfan

    tweetyfan Silver IL'ite

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    Thoughts on Becoming a Mother

    There are women that become mothers without effort, without thought, without patience or loss and though they are good mothers and love their children, I know that I will be better.
    I will be better not because of genetics, or money or that I have read more books,
    but because I have struggled and toiled for this child.
    I have longed and waited. I have cried and prayed.
    I have endured and planned over and over again.
    Like most things in life, the people who truly have appreciation are those who have struggled to attain their dreams.
    I will notice everything about my child.
    I will take time to watch my child sleep, explore and discover. I will marvel at this miracle every day for the rest of my life.
    I will be happy when I wake in the middle of the night to the sound of my child, knowing that I can comfort, hold and feed him and that I am not waking to take another temperature, pop another pill, take another shot or cry tears of a broken dream. My dream will be crying for me.
    I count myself lucky in this sense; that God has given me this insight, this special vision with which I will look upon my child that my friends will not see.
    Whether I parent a child I actually give birth to or a child that God leads me to, I will not be careless with my love.
    I will be a better mother for all that I have endured. I am a better wife, a better aunt, a better daughter, neighbor, friend and sister because I have known pain.
    I know disillusionment as I have been betrayed by my own body, I have been tried by fire and hell many never face, yet given time, I stood tall.
    I have prevailed.
    I have succeeded.
    I have won.
    So now, when others hurt around me, I do not run from their pain in order to save myself discomfort. I see it, mourn it, and join them in theirs.
    I listen.
    And even though I cannot make it better, I can make it less lonely. I have learned the immerse power of another hand holding tight to mine, of other eyes that moisten as they learn to accept the harsh truth and when life is beyond hard. I have learned a compassion that only comes with walking in those shoes.
    I have learned to appreciate life.
    Yes I will be a wonderful mother.
     

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