A warning message like that before each new thread gets created would mean, at least in my case, that more than half the threads don't get created. Your request for deactivation was not granted. You have since come back and posted with the same account. If the reason was dire enough and beyond a generic "to safe guard my relationships", your first step of action would be to stop posting in the site. I don't want to elaborate here on ways of getting a "close enough alternate" to posts or account deletion as that would obviously be counter-productive, but starting threads on the issue or sharing private message/conversation in a thread is surely not the way to go about it. sbonigala, I am a fan of your posts and draw inspiration from what you have shared with us. I don't mean to be rude or unsympathetic. If any content in my posts is objectionable or hurtful, please click-report to admins. After a short stint as a moderator and an experience of what a royal headache that job can be, I try not to contest any edit/delete or move of my posts or threads.