Hello how r u all? It's been a Lil long time to keep in touch with you. Again came back with a new post. I have seen many ups and downs(mostly this) in my life when it comes to relationships after marriage. That is with my in-laws and my husband. I was back stabbed teased and my name was totally spoiled by my in-laws just because Iam independent in thoughts and having my own way of line. This has happened for the past ten years with nil support from my husband. He is a great escapist. On the other side, he did much to comfy me in many things in life and has not interfered and controlled me in my own way. This is a plus. He never asks money nor he keep a track on my activities. But when it comes to his parents, he escapes or he supports them and he will be like this in future also I know that, Pointing me as a victim even for Lil things. Being in this situation, sometimes I can't even control my emotions and vent out myself in a room keeping all these in mind struggling alone without any emotional support except my parents. I was totally insulted by my sil for no reason(I swear) because Iam from a middle class family. So I couldn't withstand my sils behaviour so I stopped talking with her without any argument or fight. This has created a big cyclone and I was compelled to talk with her irrespective of her behavior stating that since because she is my SIL I have to talk and she will behave and treat me however she wants. Slowly my pil emotionally abused me and everytime earns a sadistic pleasure out of teasing me by words.I also had miscarriage s because of mental agony (for this I had a comment that I was not interested to have a child) . The limit exceeded and I came out and now living alone with my husband. I won't interfere in his happiness with his parents and at the same time I stopped talking to them. I really am afraid of my future because of their reckless behavior towards me and worry that they shouldn't disturb me anymore. I would like to know where am I doing mistake. Whether Iam mentally weak or am I not have any tolerance on my self respect damage or something that I should improve to have guts or I don't know. At the same time I have an urge in mind to come up in life in career wise so that I can maintain my self value. I really want to come up and live before them and show that I am no more weaker. I need inspirational stories and experiences from my friends who have come up and showed in front of in-laws that they can't be treated so easily and so badly in life. I really need advices from all women who has emerged so strong and showed that they can live as a powerful woman.