Friends, My in laws are in US for a 3 mnths visit. Not to mention MIL is very manipulative.:twisted: FIL stuck to tv serials, he is good though. DH is loving and caring, rarely speaks up for me. My DS is 2 yrs. He is very attached to his grand parents, as I joined work after 6 mnths of maternity leave they have been taking care of him at home in India. When I was working I used to make breakfast, lunch, baby food. tidy up the kitchen, load the clothes in the washing machine, and run to catch the 7 am bus. Since I could not cope up with household chores, kid and also my husband had to come to US, I quit my job, when kid was a year. MIL made my kid have a practice of taking day time naps( 3 naps he used to take before his 1st yr). so that she can put him to sleep, go to T.nagar (shopping area in Chennai), and returns before I come home from office. :hide: Now my kid has turned 2, she is forcing him to have day time naps, which turns vain. He is a very playful boy. wants to play always irrespective of the time. During nights she makes my kid sleep with her. I too left initally, but now my DS wants grand parents with him always, first thing after he wakes from sleep he says " thatha paati" (calls grand parents). I am scared of the way, how he is going to adapt once they leave to India. Am planning to put him in pre-school once they leave as a way to divert him. Will this work? Any suggestions??