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  1. indubalram

    indubalram Platinum IL'ite

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    It was an arranged marriage for both of us. But he was the one who forced me. In between our engagement and marriage I wanted stop the marriage several times but he never let me communicate to my parents. He used speak all sweet words before marriage.
     
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    is he physically abusive?
     
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    indubalram Platinum IL'ite

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    Sometimes he is physical as well
     
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    indubalram Platinum IL'ite

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    When I say this to my father and my brother they don’t bother
     
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    Start meditation. Every person in this world is complete system in itself. Realize your potential. Instead of looking for outward things, go inwards. There’s an ocean of strength inside you. Feel that. You are working. Whatever time you are getting up right now, just get up 30-40 min prior & focus only on yourself. Try to feel the universe inside you. Its just a matter of few days & you will be bubbling with energy. Focus on yourself. How you can improve your life by improving your inner self. List the negative part of our personality. Focus on them one by one & work on eliminating them. Thats how you change your mindset.
     
  6. Janakinarne

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    Dear you are saying he is in 50's,it means you came very far from your marriage and ur daughter als got married,why you didn't take a chance to come out of the mrg in early years and now I feel you are feeling all alone,why you worrying about such guy who doesn't care or doesn't need your presence in his life!!he should feel bad because everyone are enjoying with there wife's but he is not,you are working women then you wil hav some friend circle right,try to plan some short trips and enjoy and behave he was nothing to you ,try to be happy what you have and if you hav time engage yourself in devotional ,you are in too stressed stage try to come out of it share with your best friends or whom you can feel free
     
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    Donot allow that. Stand up for yourself. Threaten him with consequences. I am sure he will stop. People like these are cowards. If he doesn’t stop, make sure to make that call.
     
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    next time call the police. he will be moved out of your house.
    you do seem depressed . in the meanwhile, can you join art of living .online courses are there.
    will help you feel better?
     
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    Call who?
     
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    if you feel strongly to live separately then try living separately for few months and evaluate your feelings. If you feel comfortable alone then take further steps.
     

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