What you say is really true,all my life i had always wanted to make others happy,my papa,mama ,my friends.So i had lived their life so far.Selecting this guy was also for my parents. what can i say i married at 23,because my dad had this idea that women should be sent off to inlaws house soon as they start to earn ,marrying early is good for women...... I had a wonderful career,i could have very well settled abroad,there were many guys proposing me in college as well in workplace,i had also liked some guys as i came across ,but i had locked everything only for my dad's sake.According to him love marriage was the worst thing to happen to parents.It was a disgrace brought to parents ,or their way of bringing was worst. I locked up all my desire's,i tried to tell him,but he always convinced me,and finally sent me to hell. I will never allow this to happen to my baby.Never a guy like mine.