As ive seen so far these 4 yrs of married life all my husband's needs are meet by my MIL,all he needs is breakfast and dinner,some snacks if he is at home on sunday(ofcourse TV).He needs nothing more,till date he has not cared for me or even asked about me,he is by no means dependant on me (emotional or physical),its me who longs for his care ,his smile ................It was always me who would initiate the talk,make him ask about me tell about me,its still the same. We have not talked for weeks during my first year of marriage,often we used to have fights ,but its always me who would break the ice. There is a famous saying that when good things reach us we do not ask WHY ONLY ME,the same way when bad things happen to us we should also not ask WHY ONLY ME?? When around the world so many children have abusive or non caring parents ,when God gave me lovely parents who sacrificed their everything for me i did not ask WHY ME??? When out of hundred's in my class when i got a school first i did not ask WHY ME??? when out of thousands when i secured a college first i did not ask WHY ME??? when out of thousands when i secured a university rank i did not ask WHY ME??? when lots of good things happenned to me i did not ask WHY ME??? I just thought i deserved it So even if i have so called "Life partner " i think i should not ask WHY ME???.