Hi all, my inlaws are always complaining that I never invite them to stay with me. I dont and I am not planning to invite them in future too. Reason being,once they stayed with me And they want us to take to all places...Everywhere we go they use to accompany us. Even if I tell her all the directions she wont go... she is saying she lived all her life like that depending on some one and she doesnt want to change. I cant accept this because she has worked for Indian government for 20 years And she ask for everything from this place . we bought her digital camera, ipod and most of the electronics good for her which she doenst know how to use and she just keep them for name sake..Apart from that she says corrinder is good in this place all items you wont believe if i mention them. I have to tell my husband to think about all the expenses because i pay for credit card all the time.I told him to take care of credit card payments and he didnt pay it ontime and we have to pay interest for that. so I do all payments. when my mom visited us I told her that all are very expensive in the place we live and she wont ask for too much. while I tell my parents about it he never tells his mom about too much expenses..He doesnt wants me to tell her directly and even if I say that indirectly he hates it.... ANd she interferes with everything ... what ever we talk he volunterily give us suggestions/instructions which we never ask her for... ANd my fil never leaves home town and he doesnt like to go to any other place other than his house so she calls him everyday to ask him what he eats /when she sleeps.... and also she calls her dear daughter everysingle day.....which is really annoying... And she strictly said she cannot take care of baby all the time bcoz she doesnt have energy to take care of baby. And recently when I visited india she said every day that my son only goes to sleep by the way she sings and he will eat good only if she feeds her which is really annoying and I didnt react bcoz I stay there only for 1 months.... my question is do you voluntarily invite your inlaws.