i gave courage to do matromonial alliances search. This time groom pas for every damn thing. Every damn thing. Even if I sponsor he's paying that too ... and getting the paperwork filled! Reading these posts time and time again is so disturbing. Wife pays husbands $4000 credit card debt but when she's pregnant and cold outside the husband don't buy veggies. My goodness ... Guy will pay every damn thing, else no marriage deal. Reading all this bull$h17, nightmare stories. We are meant for better things. Men pay, it's the infants and adolescents that throw tantrums. See my poem "Sexy Sexy man he pays, Sexy sexy man he stays" in poetry forum. How can a woman have physical attraction to a spoilt brat for whome to have get get out of debt. Or maybe we women are/were scared of being alone and gives the looser sex. I'm just amazed at humanity,