We both met when we were 19 & 20, almost half of our lives we are together. It took a lot of energy to get approval from parents for our marriage. Finally it happened, in that process we both suffered so much, lots of ups and downs. Fast forward now: He is the best husband. Wakes up before me, gets into the kitchen before me, cooks and packs kids lunch boxes every single day, whereas I take care of getting them ready, getting our lunch ready, etc etc as I login by 7am to handle teams across the globe. He also cleans the kitchen, sweeps the pooja room and kitchen so I can do pooja every day. Not even single outside work will let it come to me, whereas kids HomeWorks and the rest of the household I take care of. It's a perfect balance. As I am very busy continuously he calls my dad and checks how they are, if they need anything etc. Helps my sister in many ways. But I am completely shut off from S_ _. Last time we had it was 10 months ago. I feel so dead. Every single night he checks , I am not interested he just keeps calm. But our affection for each other didn’t compromise, without hugging him I cant slip into sleep, same for him. But I don’t know why? Went to primary Dr, she suggested that I see OBGYN, she said oh its normal. Just work it out in your mood. I do have work disturbances, but when my day is so calm also I have no interest in that. We both spend very good quality time with each other, as we both are so organized we find good time for each other. Kids are very cooperative in most, so nothing sort of not having time. They did Perimenopause and some hormone tests, everything seems to be normal. But I am dying, last night I tried to put in an effort. I was crying all the time without him seeing but I can't continue to be like this. That’s the best bonding in marriage. I want to work on it, mentally I am fine but I feel this is not right. Please help, how can I overcome this? Is there anything as external support?