I have started to hate my husband . I feel that hes made for his side of the family only . He cares for his parents and his sister all the time . He does care for me and kids . but nothing for my family. I dnt expect him to do anything for my family, but he creates a problem for me all the time if im doing something my sister had a baby and now in summer vacation , i wanted to go see them. I dnt expect him to go at all. When i told him , he said we should go visit his sister too ...i said ok to that as well...now he has created this thing that he wants to go to india or go for some vacation with his family and because of that all the conversation etc is all about his parents /their health and the trip with them etc....he wants to take them somewhere for a vacation and is making plans on if they can meet us somewhere like singapore, middle east etc ....i'm not sure if hes thinking of calling my parents too..that is another story ..why would i go all the way and not meet or take my parents for vacation???? of course i will and whenever i will bring this up , i have no idea how he will react ... he never take any vacation with my family ..my sister has asked so many times about hawaii costa rica etc and he always says that he wants to go alone with just me and kids... i'm so sick and tired of this person and i hate him so much .... for the past few years i have been trying to change and let him do whatever he wants but 1. he never let me d what i want , he always interferes and create this sulking face .... and also he wants to do things for his family and involve me and kids all the time...how can he expect me to do everything and he can ge away by not doing anything for my side of the family. on top of that he is a very difficult person to live with ...i found my way around it but i feel so trapped with him...i dnt enjoy mos of my time with him . Hes always thinking of his parents and his sister all the time ...they are his life.when it comes to spending, he does not ca at all if the money is going for them but for my family he just stays quiet or if i'm doing something then he tries to disrupt things for me and create this tension and trouble all the time .