I feel cheated

I personally don't see any point in being married to a guy that acts like this. Just before marriage and early days of marriage are when the partner is on the best behavior so I see this situation as only getting worse. If you are working out of town as some posters have mentioned, I see them just using you got get cash for his business (which you never agreed or wanted to be involved in). Your husband shows no sign of anything but complete selfish behavior with no regard to you whatsoever. If you had been married longer with more and more stories of this type, maybe the way would be clearer. You will have to decide how much of this you can stand.