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Discussion in 'Life Without Spouse' started by lovinglife, Feb 22, 2008.

  1. lovinglife

    lovinglife New IL'ite

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    I finally feel alive!!

    I have been separated for more than a year and have been divorced for a little while. Even before that, my relationship with my Ex was totally dead, physically and emotionally, for more than 3 years. We were just living under the same roof like room mates.

    I went out with someone a couple of days ago and after the dinner, when he kissed me, I felt ALIVE!!!!! I am not being shameless, but just trying to share with other women here that for once, I truly enjoyed a simple kiss and felt every bone in my body come alive. And, I had been dreading this moment for so long......

    The best part is, I did not feel guilty about anything!! Divorce is indeed like a death....but, it is also the beginning of new and wonderful things in life!!!
     
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  2. ansh12

    ansh12 Bronze IL'ite

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    Wow!

    Great piece of optimism and bubbling with life.

    Very true, why should one feel guilty for being loved , that's why I post that article on why do we need relationships.

    Everyone has an inherent urge to be loved, to be appreciated, to be made to feel improtant, to be taken care of and those who say, they don't have this urge are either lying or are dead.

    I always say I don't want to exist, I want to live.

    I am happy for you that you have someone who gave you a lease of life .

    Wishing you all the very best in your life and thanks for making us the part of your happiness. We at Indusladies are like family members and who would not feel happy to know that a member of theirs is happy.

    Please make this forum also alive with posts of your. Your post may give, hope, happiness to many. They may help someone in taking crucial decison in their lives.

    Love
    Ansh
     
  3. Shanvy

    Shanvy IL Hall of Fame

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    Hey Induskr,

    Good to know that you are moving forward in everysense.

    Sometimes A Simple Kiss, is what it takes to make you alive. I am happy for you.

    Wishing you all the best for happier life.
     
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    Hi Induskr,

    Congratulations !!! Glad to know that a new beginning awaits you in life.

    Kavya.

     
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    So happy for you Induskr. Excellent, wonderful!

    Life is only going to get more and more beautiful for you. And you deserve every bit of it.

    Wish you all the best things in life.
    SS
     
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    hey induskr,
    Congrats on mustering up the courage to move forward in life!

    Wish you all the happiness and hope it leads to better things soon!
    best,
    hasita
     
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    Hi induskr

    Congrats yaar..........there is nothing to feel guilty...i can really understand ur feeling........
    May GOD blessu with everything u need...........Wishing u all the best for ur new beginning.......
     
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    Hi Induskr

    I am so happy for you.

    I wish you be happy and alive forever.

    Cheers
    Parul
     
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    WOW.....Ansh, and all the other women here. Thank you so much for your warm responses. I am humbled to know of the strong online community we have here!! Thank you all :)

    I agree when you say that we all need to feel valued and it just feels so good when you know someone likes you for who you are....and just the way you are!!

    Mine was an arranged marriage and I was 22. I had never dated anyone prior to my marriage. So, to have this new lease of life at 32, it just feels so good.

    With everything I have learnt in these last 10 years, I feel a little more wiser about life and hopefully, will make better choices in life. Even if this new relationship does not go anywhere, it just feels nice to know that whatever will happen, good or bad, it will be MY choice, my decision, I get to take the credit or the blame and no one is forcing me to do anything.

    Thanks again!!
     
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    Hi Induskr

    Wishing you have a happy life ahead and as you said that of your own choice.

    Let this new beginning be a happy beginning.

    Hope, in coming years you will not have to write in "Life after separation", rather let it be "beautiful life with a companion(of course of your choice)":thumbsup

    Best wishes
    Ansh
     

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