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i dont know...but i jst wnted to write this..

Discussion in 'Married Life' started by shefalimehta, Dec 30, 2012.

  1. shefalimehta

    shefalimehta Junior IL'ite

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    m sure i have depression..all symptoms match my situation n how i behave . i dont know how to help myself
     
  2. aminroop

    aminroop IL Hall of Fame

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    in that case pls go to a psychiatrist who will prescribe u anti-depressant. which will not/should not be available to u over the counter.
     
  3. shefalimehta

    shefalimehta Junior IL'ite

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    n yeah m here coz i wnt to talk n sharenow...i dnt socialise at all...no social ntwrkn nthn now..n here i feel i can talk wteva i wnt..nobdy will ask me anythng abt my past.. nothing related to me... what i did n why. thnks alot ILites...
     
  4. shefalimehta

    shefalimehta Junior IL'ite

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    but i dnt knw.. actly i put up in a fmly where i dnt hv freedom to step out of the house wthout any elder prsn wth me.. n i cnt tell my parents abt all dis..they jst feel dat m stressed bcoz of my studies n dats y i dnt talk to others,..dnt go anywhere wth frnds..in dis stuatn ..a psychiatrist...dnt knw hw
     
  5. aminroop

    aminroop IL Hall of Fame

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    take ur mom or sister or brother into confidence and just tell them. even u ll feel a lot better once u tell it all to someone.
     
  6. shefalimehta

    shefalimehta Junior IL'ite

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    i dnt thnk i cn do dat ever.. i just cnt tell them..
     
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    SGA IL Hall of Fame

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    Do you have any hobby ??? any thing you like , just start doing it ...Or learn new hobby ....Idea is to get your mind engaged in something else

    Mix with your close friend .....It will give you happiness ..
     
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    zainabsarfraz Platinum IL'ite

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    hugs to you dear.. you are a very sensitive person, try to mingle with kids its the best way to forget your past you will slowly start to relive your life. all the best dear :)
     
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    swt.charu Platinum IL'ite

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    Sorry I might sound "going off on a tangent" but can't resist myself...

    This is the primary problem in our society... parents not being there for the children.... children not being able to be open up to thier parents... if the OP had an option to discuss with parents and take assistance much of this pain could have been eased... even the suicide nonsense would not have happend... how did your people react to your suicide attempt? I don't mean to ask if they were shocked or not .. I am sure they were... but what was the support they gave you post your attempt.. did they have a heart to heart talk with you to understand the problem... if yes please take their assistance...

    may be your parents really mean to help you out... its just that you don't have the courage to open up...

    As a parent... I want my child to have 100% confidence that I am there for him... come what may... I would express the same through words, actions... whatever it takes... but the child too needs to reciprocate... not hesitate...
     
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    Iamagoodgirl Platinum IL'ite

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    I am just out of break up so i now how you feel.There are really good remedies in homepathy for breakup i took it for few days just to ease pain.It works.It doesnt cure everything 100% but it does help in easing somewhat pressure.It helps to relax our mind and to concentrate on other things.

    Apart from that i started going for long walks daily very early at morning.Please try it worked with me.I should work with you too.
    I was able to move on in 1-2 months.Go good luck! Tell yourself you deserve someone better in life.
     

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